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Monday, August 3, 2015
What Does Your Sun Sign Say About Your Sex Life?

You are born with certain characteristics that are not dependent on your genes, or on the nature of your kith and kin, owing to the time of the year you are born at. And if your sun sign can determine your mettle, it can also reveal a lot about your sexual preferences. Read on and find out how accurate sun signs are.
Aquarius (Jan 20 – Feb 19)

Caught in their fantasies, the Aquarians love the idea of sex more than the act itself. What turns them on most is detachment. They give off a cool vibe in bed, and their ‘it is now or never’ attitude, can be very sexy and can be extremely maddening at the same time. The adventurous kinds, Aquarians’ fetishes involve getting caught in bed. They usually get attracted to people who are a bit off beat, if not odd.
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Pisces(Feb 20 – Mar 20)

Most willing to please, Pisceans are full of romance and mush, even in bed. Often called the chameleons in bed, Pisceans don’t have a particular style, and adapt to their partner’s style almost always. They are not very verbal, and get extremely fascinated by imbalance. Their sexual expression is full of self-sacrifice andcompassion(almost spiritual, one might say). They love deeply, forgive easily and also let you go, if that is what you wish. They are shy lovers, and can seem detached and spaced out at times. Their fantasies are extremely detailed. They are usually attracted to the underdogs.
Aries (Mar 21- Apr 19)

The Arian love is spontaneous and unrestricted. They almost melt when their partners give their all to them. This adventurous lot, love the ‘playing hard to get’ kind, and always look for trouble in love. Their erogenous zones are their heads. Play with their hair, or grab their face while you are making love, and they will adore you. They are quick and also quite selfish in bed. They are not into foreplay and prefer to get to the point. Always the enthusiasts, Arians are fast and vigorous but also very sincere in their sexual expression. Unlike how it is for the other signs, it is not romance but the sexual organs of their partners that arouse them. Powerful desire engulfs them always, but having said that, they can fall in and out of love with a blink of an eye.
Taurus (Apr 20 – May 20)

It is not just their bodies they involve, but also their senses in their sexual acts. Touch and smell are extremely important to the Taureans. They are extremely physical partners. All they care about is a good mood and physical contact, even in a casual relationship. Neither are they too spontaneous, nor are they too diverse, but they are extremely good at what they do. They are always truly in the moment. Their need to touch makes abstinence very hard. They have an amazing stamina, and are usually steady and long lasting.
Gemini (May 21 – Jun 20)

They absolutely love dirty talk and kissing. You could safely say that they derive the most pleasure orally. They are fun in bed, but you must also be prepared for their sudden bursts of dialogue while you are at it. An intellectual conversation is usually a source of extended foreplay for them. Enthusiastic and extremely curious, this sun sign loves to try all that there is to try. Their tendency to overthink, keeps them double guessing about sex. Geminis are driven more by intellect than by physical desire.
Cancer (June 21- Jul 22)

Sweet and sensitive, Cancereans are submissive, and are turned on almost instantly by slave scenarios. They will adore you if you are aggressive and mean in bed, but they need to know that you love them. This sign, is most attracted to breasts, and they fantasize about their men being extremely macho and women being super feminine. They will never tell you what they want sexually, which is why you will always have a lot of inferring to do. Their style is the ‘caring and calming’ kinds.
Leo (July 23- Aug 22)

They have the extreme need of being in control in bed. It is almost like they claim the status of a god or goddess in bed. They will surely take care of their partner but first; they have this need to satisfy themselves. They can be extremely possessive and utterly envious, but more often than not, they try and hide these emotions. They want their partners to constantly prove their love for them, and always expect the world from them. Leos find it hard to separate love and lust, and their most erotic fantasies also have love underlying in them. They are open and have a very direct sexual approach, but they can be extremely impatient if their needs are not quenched in time.
Virgo (Aug 23- Sep 22)

Sex for Virgos is a bodily need. They see it as a necessity for well-being, and use it as a stress buster. If they don’t have a partner, they are quite comfortable with themselves as well. They are usually turned on by the unnoticed. They can be insecure about their bodies, so they take great care in hitting the right nerve and turning you on, to perfection. They totally respect your likes and dislikes, and therefore focus on what has worked in the past. They are the sign of the virgin, but unlike what is perceived, they are not too picky about their partners, and they have the best time with someone who needs love and care. They are extremely curious and therefore find the idea of Voyeurism quite appealing. They will go all out, and also get dirty if it’s in the boundaries of a healthy liaison.
Libra (Sep 22- Oct 22)

Librans stand for balance, and quite obviously, they look for balance in bed as well. They are always working towards getting things right. They are always looking to grow and enhance their sexual expression. If you want to keep your Libran lover happy, you need to keep it fair. They are givers, but also expect to be given in return. The charmers, they can be quite picky when it comes to the mood and ambiance of the lovemaking.
Scorpio (Oct 23- Nov 21)

These lovers are quite complex. They enjoy supremacy and love defying taboos. They are willing to try and do almost everything. They play hard to get, and give only when they feel their partner deserves it. However, they are intense and committed to their lover. Provocative, yet private, they will never ever kiss and tell. Their fantasies are wild beyond imagination.
Sagittarius (Nov 22- Dec 21)

Like the Geminis, Sagittarians love to have fun in bed. They treat sex like a sport, and are always honest and forthcoming about their longings. They are easily turned on by laughter and roughhousing. But bordering on selfish, their want to “get-off” will be expressed loud and clear. A bit impatient, they are okay to play around as long as it is done with quickly. You can never be too serious or play hard to get with Sagittarians. Romance is not their cup of tea.
Capricorn (Dec 22- Jan 19)

They love it neat, clean and simple. They are usually attracted to more experienced, or older partners and prefer strong, powerful lovers. They are not particular about variety and have a no-frills attached style of lovemaking. They are extremely private about their bedroom affairs, and will never go into the messy details of things.
That’s a lot of information to be a perfect lover in your partner’s bed. Go on, and get steamy.
Sunday, June 21, 2015
The Greatest Secrets to Enlightenment
"Total liberation is not very far away, it is just hidden behind you." ~Osho
It just happens after a few dozen trips around the sun. We come to a time in our lives when we start asking ourselves deeper questions like, "What's the point of it all? Why am I here? What great purpose do I serve?" Whenever we are blessed to reach this moment of our soul's deepest inquiry, it needs to be honored with the utmost patience and persistence. This is the golden carrot which leads us to dig further inside, so that we uncover the roots of why we are struggling and see how to alleviate any pain we are incurring. It is from returning to this juicy self inquiry that we discover the most sacred answers to life, which truly satisfy every crack and crevice of our being.
Enlightenment is not some fairy tale experience, or something just meant for a few special sacred people. It is the highest peak of our consciousness and is available to all beings in every moment. It is a genuinely grounded spiritual experience, which transforms all the sour lemons in your life into the most succulent sweet lemonade. The enlightened state is what lifts the veil blinding us from the truth, allowing us to see just how magnificent we truly are.
NOTE: The few secrets to enlightenment that you're about to explore below, are like yummy little treats for you to taste and suck on. Let each one melt in your mouth, slide down into your heart, and you'll begin to digest a whole new invigorating and refreshing experience of your life.
If you step back and look at our world from the highest most heavenly space, it appears that we are this great symphony of souls all working together to reach higher states of consciousness. Of course we are also these separate beings with unique minds, hearts and individual lives. Yet this separating aspect is not the biggest truth. The greatest truth is that we are intimately connected with everything and everyone else in the Universe.
When we surrender to this larger truth, weaving it throughout our day, the most tantalizing and enlightening moments just magically show up. We can feel the prescence of something much larger than ourselves is guiding us to a more joyous state of being. We naturally become more sensually available to all the pleasure and joy we are here to experience in this deliciously exquisite existence.
By being radically open, raw, naked and deeply willing to receive whatever the divine existence is offering us in each moment, enlightenment must pour into us. It simply has no other choice! When we completely empty out our cup, the Universe has to fill it. The result is a truly intimate connection with this divine intelligence, and an abundance of the richest manifesting energy radiating from our core. By living each moment from this raw open vulnerable place, we can become unstoppable in everything and anything that we do.
Whenever we are deeply surrendered to life, life surrenders to us. We immediately feel this humble yet empowering connection with everything and everyone. There are no more feelings of lack, unworthiness or separation with who we are. There is also no need to become someone powerful, superior and special, so that we cover up that unconscious insecure self who feels inferior. We can allow all our darker parts to be seen, felt and heard.
"Experience life in all possible ways -- good-bad, bitter-sweet, dark-light, summer-winter. Experience all the dualities. Don't be afraid of experience, because the more experience you have, the more mature you become." ~Osho
The most spiritually expansive, loving, healing, and magical experiences in life instantly start manifesting when we take the risk to look within and be honest, vulnerable and real with who we think we are. When we remove all our masks with everyone in our lives, drop all our perceived burdens, shed our protective layers, and become totally transparent with everyone in the world, then the supreme enlightened reality sneaks into us. This enlightened perception of life takes over our mind, creating an energetic merging with our ego and spiritual essence, and we feel this awesome wholesome love for ourselves and others everywhere we go.
The secret to this second enlightened secret is be fearless in unraveling and exposing our most enlightened and horrific selves. We must be able to relax and truly be at ok with every good and bad idea that passes through our mind and emotions. We must not get stuck on anything, and become like Teflon, a non-stick surface which all thoughts slide off of. We cannot take anything that is revealed personally, as every idea and concept we have about who we are was handed down to us, programmed in our subconscious mind from our parents, siblings, teachers, society and the many generations who were before them.
"Don't rely on the mind for liberation. You are the sum cause of the entire Universe." ~Nisargadatta
If you start to watch your mind, you'll notice it is always striving, judging, analyzing and needing to achieve something. You may have lived your entire life so far, completely wrapped up in the head, which is always focusing on thoughts, concepts, right and wrong opinions, judgments and belief systems. This the secret to remaining unenlightened. As long as you're always up in the head thinking, with your brain running the show, and the rest of your heart, sex center and physical sensual body is being ignored.
Know that enlightenment is full body experience. This means the whole body is engaged in experiencing life, and not just the over analytical mind. To step back from the mind requires total awareness. Every enlightened experience begins by first taking ONE step back from the mind and resting into a state of pure awareness. This is why an enlightenment seeker meditates. Not to control the mind, yet to transcend all thinking completely, calling forth the experience of total silence, stillness and pure awareness inside.
Stillness creates an automatic letting go of the constant control, domination and neediness of the mind. It is something that takes 100% of your devotion and dedication, as the mind is deeply addicted to the outer search. It will spend lifetimes searching for fulfillment in the outer world, believing this is the purpose of life. It will continuously try to fill your time on earth with new information, people, and special goodies out there, never questioning reality or what your heart or soul is really yearning for inside.
The secret to this enlightened stillness of mind is learning how to be 100% surrendered to life. This comes from giving more enerty towards that natural trusting feeling in something bigger than you is running the entire show. This supreme God Source and cosmic intelligence is very real, and always connected with our core essence. We are a drop of water in this sweet cosmic ocean. We are not separate from this vast sea of bliss, until we get caught in the mind and believe we are. When we rest in total stillness of mind, we instantly dissolve back into the sea of bliss and find freedom within it all.
Lastly, be aware that the mind is very tricky and slippery, so use caution whenever you approach it. Don't trust the mind or buy into it's stories, as it will confidently lead you down one sure path, and then switch the next day into following a completely different direction. Trust the heart instead of the mind. The heart lives in love, and abides in a connection of oneness with the Universe. This is the easiest doorway to enter the experience of enlightenment.
"When I look inside and see that I am nothing, that is wisdom. When I look outside and see that I am everything, that is love. And between these two, my life turns." - Nisargadatta Maharaj
The great secret to living in a continuous state of trust, is learning how to abide in the feminine energy. This is the highly fertile experience of openness, deep relaxation and pure receptivity. When this energy enters our body, it means we have stopped engaging in society's over controlling dominating masculine influence, and started welcoming that feminine magnetic force that is inherent at the core of every atom in creation.
This sacred feminine energy is wild, liberating, and is very magnetic. It is inside everything around us. It is very real, organic, and it shows up naturally when we stop pursing the life that never fully satisfied us. As we turn inwards to find the divine feminine source, we merge with that ancient way of being which nurtures our very soul. We find this natural spiritual energy inside our being, and relaxing into this energy allows us to FEEL at one with the entire Universe wherever we go.
The enlightened state is absolute trust in what is here now, and it's never half ass about it. This 100% level of trust creates an instant feeling of freedom from doubt, resistance and fear. The mind stops controlling everything, and it gives up striving to attain a different experience than the one given to you now.
When we live from a state of 100% trust, we start allowing this magical Universe to unfold however it will. If you are only willing to release 99% control over your life, then ask yourself what is this 1% still holding on to? Why would clinging to thoughts of fear, doubt and needing more control be more important than your spiritual freedom? Sure, we could allow for a small percentage of your ego's free will to be there, yet it's good to explore how this non-trusting ego trip is just some entertaining side show and not the real deal.
To abide in 100% trust all day long, requires a full let go of your beliefs, addictions, demands on yourself, others, and this world. It means that you stop avoiding your unlimited spiritual nature. Total trust is about you recognizing the divine soul you are, and having the deepest devotion to your spiritual self. The secret is about embracing all the joy and pain you find inside.
Life is meant to be a continuous trusting process. To master it, this great sacred feminine energy needs to be at our center, so we can feel nourshed and guided in every moment of our lives. When we can sit back and allow the great cosmic wheel of life to take over, we'll find out that it steering our mind to see, feel and know this is all divine perfection.
"All journeys are outward journeys, there is no inward journey. How can you turn inwards? You are already there, there is no point in going. When going stops, journeying disappears. When desiring is no more clouding the mind, you are in." ~Osho
These worlds are one world, two sides of the same coin, and they are interdependent with each other, feeding into the other. They cannot exist without each other. If we judge something in the material world as bad, we set up an energetic block inside us which stops our spiritual growth, and vice-versa. It is only through surrendering to the merging of our spiritual and material nature that we find the fastest path to freedom. Ironically, you will find the experience of spiritual surrender is one of the greatest manifesting secrets that was ever invented, and causes our dreams and desires to manifest faster than the speed of light.
"Retire into solitude. Seat yourself on a clean spot in an erect posture, with the head and neck in a straight line. Control all sense-organs. Bow down in devotion to your teacher. Then enter the lotus of the heart and meditate there on the presence of Brahman - the pure, the infinite, the blissful." ~Kalvalya Upanishad
It's good to know that the road towards enlightenment is the highest spiritual path one can choose to follow through life. Not because self-realization is soooo challenging to discover and maintain, yet rather because it is also extremely easy and effortless. It is both effortless and ridiculously challenging, which is what makes it so enticing to explore. The mind is often too small of a container to grasp this, and may become confused by this conundrum, which is why we haven't heard about that many enlightened beings in our Earth's history.
The good news is that anyone can step into this empty of mind, spiritually awakened state instantly at any moment, since the light of consciousness is our basic nature. Depending on your programming, it may require decades of searching and efforting to set the mind aside, remain fully conscious of pure consciousness, totally relaxed in your body, and eternally expanding into your cosmic spiritual nature.
It's truly the greatest cosmic joke of all, that we are trying to attain our natural effulgent state of being. We already are that, so what could be easier and harder than that? Basically, it means we must make a tremendous effort to be 100% effortless.
So on this great journey into enlightenment, you are going to get to pass a few essential tests. What's at stake here is your life's fulfillment on the deepest levels. So you will come across many unexpected curves in the road, perhaps an enormous range of mountains to climb, a massive road block to leap over, and many succulent distractions that will stop you in your spiritual tracks. All these tests make the journey even more of a wild and crazy celebration when we are sitting on top of one of these peaks, or resting in the green sunny warm valley along the way.
I find that people don't appreciate things that are freely given, as much as those things which they may feel are nearly impossible to attain. No feat that is going to push your boundaries, stretch your limits, and feels outrageous to even imagine is going to be easy to manifest. The amount of struggle, loss and confusion along your journey is the very fuelthat will eventually burn your ego away so again it is the Universe has invented the perfect spiritual set up.
Just remember, the Universe never makes mistakes. The journey which is pulling you deeper into this very moment of your life is revealing the real reason why you are here. If you look for your path into enlightenment in any place other than the now, you'll miss it. It is always hidden in the most sacred place that we are least likely to look for it.
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Friday, March 20, 2015
How to Access your Magic Inner Genie
"One who is connected to the Energy Stream is more powerful than a million who are not. And two who are harmoniously focused and connected to the Energy Stream brings about a co-creative endeavor that cannot be matched by anything else in all of the Universe." ~Abraham Hicks
Everyone has access to a magical power inside them that goes beyond all the limitations of what our rational society knows to be true. We each are able to tap into a world of infinite potentiality, where anything is possible and our dreams really do come true. Most nay-sayers out there would scoff at this perspective, yet little do they know that they too are creating their own reality by the negativism they hold. Once they loosen their grip just a bit on the tightly wound point of view they are clenching, they will see that there is room in this amazing Universe for all sorts wild things.
If you just look around you, you will notice that this world you are living in consists of polar opposites. There is duality around every corner. You have dark and light, day and night, male and female, high and low, good and bad, right and wrong. You can also interpret these opposites as complimentary energies, since the depend on each other to co-exist. With this said, if there is a world of typical, mundane, "normal" existence. There too must also exist its opposite or complimentary side. There must exist a magical realm that defines all the typical laws that we suppose to be true in our everyday reality. This is the world of unlimited energy and infinite possibilities which has toexist to counterbalance the world of the ordinary mind.
The invitation at this point in the game is for you to let go and trust that all things are possible in your life. If you don't trust, you will miss. You won't miss the small things, you will miss the great things, with which the greatest of them all is love. For love contains that which makes all things possible. It brings life to where there should have been death, and yields abundance to where poverty could have crept in. So I invite you to take a step into your inner world today and imagine that whatever you believe to be true, is your truth manifesting in your world.
"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls a butterfly." ~ Richard Bach.
Deep down inside you is something that is powerful beyond measure. There is an omnipotent magic Genie who is here to grant your every wish and desire. This powerful being is always listening to your every word, gesture and command, forever ready to assist you in creating the physical reality that your heart is longing for. The most important aspect of all for you to realize is that your genie can hear the importance of your wishes through the emotional energy you have. When you radiate out a very strong feeling about something, this energy activates and awakens your inner genie to get busy and start manifesting the beliefs behind that emotion. So no matter whether your thoughts are negative or positive, it will manifest whatever your strongest feelings tend to be.
Your genie is very sharp and perceptive. It takes commands based on whatever your attention and focus falls upon. Your awareness is the guidance system where it knows to wave it's magic manifesting hands. If your mind is continuously having a strong yearning desire for something to manifest, your genie will feel and hear the "neediness" and lacking feelings that you're generating. It will then support you with creating more lack and empty results in the outer world. If you have a strong feeling about something that you absolutely don't want to occur, your genie will sense that negative feeling of what you don't want, and give you more challenge, adversity and negativity to deal with.
Your genie knows that you are its master, and so doesn't doubt your lead. It would never think that you made a mistake in what you choose to focus your divine attention upon. It is aware that you are more divine, intelligent, and powerful than itself, so it will go ahead and manifest challenging situations for you. Perhaps your life may be too boring, or your soul is not learning as much as it could and you need some extra grist churning inside your mill. The key to befriending your magic genie is to know it is always listening, and to be very specific about what you are focusing on. The more clear and certain you are about your desires, the faster your genie will hand them over to you. Yet, you cannot just haphazardly think about what you want in your life, you must use your heart and gut and KNOW that this is it! By being soooo certain about it, you really relax inside and can allow the feeling of accepting your manifestations arrival.
Being single in your desire is the greatest secret of all to getting aligned with the full power behind your magic genie. If your mind is full of too many needs, wants and desires, your genie will get confused and unable to hear specifically what you most want. It is essential that you take time to be still and get very VERY QUIET inside before you start requesting anything. From the silent space within you will be clear enough to choose just one thing that makes your heart sing! As long as there is a knowing that your request has been received, it all depends on how deep your connection is with your magic genie as to how effortless the materialization occurs.
There is sooo much magic inside you that is just waiting to burst out into your life! It wants to create the most amazing relationships, abundance income, inspiring career, and feelings of unstoppability in all that you do.
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