Monday, March 31, 2014
5 Tips To Ensure She Has MULTIPLE O's Tonight ;)
Imagine giving your girl the kind of pleasure that leaves her totally breathless, and her hair wild as she's smiling at you in pure ecstasy.
You know...the kind of pleasure that’s so deep her lady parts tingle whenever she thinks about you...
This is what happens when she experiences MULTIPLE orgasms, and this is the kind of buzz that makes her sexually ADDITICTED to you =)
And I'm about to tell you EXACTLY how to do it...
The 5 ways to ENSURE your woman experiences powerful explosions one after the other until she just can't handle it any longer!
Ready?
1.) Her Pleasure ALWAYS Comes First
The more foreplay you have, the better her experience will be throughout the night.
Using a lot of foreplay will bring her sexual arousal to the next level, and allow the multiple orgasms to come on much easier!
To do this, you must put your woman’s needs ahead of your own. This is the ONLY way she is guaranteed to have an intense wave of wild orgasms.
Make the night all about her, and once she is satisfied she will have no problem returning the favor.
Here’s the thing...a man’s orgasm comes way too easily in comparison to a woman’s...
It can take us, on average 4X longer to reach an orgasm than it takes a man, and men are averaging anywhere between 3 to 15 minutes!
Plus, after a guy has his first orgasm, he has to rest up and take a lot more time to recover before having a second go. Women are the complete opposite! We can keep on going =)
So if you want to give your girl multiple O’s, you have to take the time to make sure she is fully aroused and is constantly being mentally and physically stimulated.
2.) Prepare the Clit
A woman’s clit is INCREDIBLY sensitive to any kind of physical sensation.
It must be fully primed and ready before any kind of direct stimulation!
For the BEST results though, you should avoid touching that area for at least 15 minutes...
Holding off for a while will not only cause a TON of sexual tension and anticipation...
But it will also give her body time to fully awaken her sexual organs...most importantly, her mind.
Make sure your woman is comfortable and free from any stress. If she is mentally distracted in any way at all, you won't be able to give her a single orgasm, let alone multiple!
Take all the time you can to caress every inch of her warm body. Start from the top, running your fingertips along the sides of her arms while kissing her neck and gently nibbling on her earlobes =)
Play with her hair, but change the pace every so often by tugging on it a little harder.
When you do this, easily bite the sides of her neck and work your way towards her collarbone.
Lick around and near her nipples, but don’t actually come into contact with them yet...
Tease her, cup her breasts in the palms of your hands and kiss her entire stomach as you watch her breathing become shallow...
Her eyes will roll to the back of her head, she may pull you in closer, or bite down on her bottom lip...
These are all signs that her clit is slowly getting wet and ready for you, but continue playing with her until she just can’t take the teasing any longer!
Graze your hand over her vagina so lightly that it feels like a feather is being brushed up against her clit.
After doing all this, she’ll be so turned on, that a night of multiple orgasms will be cake!
Whew!! I'm getting turned on over here!! ;)
3. Know Your Way Around
Just because a woman’s clit is super small doesn’t mean it’s not incredibly powerful!!
A clit actually has over 8,000 nerve endings while your junk only has about 4,000...You do the math!
This tiny erogenous zone has the ability to feel sensations that are so strong, they can spread across a woman’s entire pelvic area affecting another 15,000 other nerve endings.
Amazing right? I love being a woman =)
Of course most guys generally know what a clit is and where to find it, but they don’t truly understand how everything all works together.
For example...the inside of the vagina is actually LESS sensitive than the outer parts of the vagina.
The best way to learn your way around and to be able to give her the most enjoyable sexual stimulation, carefully touch different parts of her clit, including the inner and outer lips of her vagina.
While doing this, watch the way she reacts to each sensation. That way you can understand what’s more sensitive for her, what makes her tick, and what parts to pay special attention to.
Try stimulating the clit in a variety of ways too...
Use circular patterns, move your finger up and down or back and forth.
Also, be sure to play around with different levels of pressure. You can start out by rubbing it very gently and then get stronger as she warms up.
I personally like lighter pressure at first, but as I become more turned on I’m all about stronger pressure!
Remember that all women are different so be sure to talk to her about what she likes. This will also make it easier for you to give her a ton and tons of orgasms!
4. Use Your Fingers
Some of the best orgasms a woman can experience is by receiving inner and outer stimulation...
Plus, those are the ones that always come on the quickest.
Try these 2 techniques:
You know...the kind of pleasure that’s so deep her lady parts tingle whenever she thinks about you...
This is what happens when she experiences MULTIPLE orgasms, and this is the kind of buzz that makes her sexually ADDITICTED to you =)
And I'm about to tell you EXACTLY how to do it...
The 5 ways to ENSURE your woman experiences powerful explosions one after the other until she just can't handle it any longer!
Ready?
1.) Her Pleasure ALWAYS Comes First
The more foreplay you have, the better her experience will be throughout the night.
Using a lot of foreplay will bring her sexual arousal to the next level, and allow the multiple orgasms to come on much easier!
To do this, you must put your woman’s needs ahead of your own. This is the ONLY way she is guaranteed to have an intense wave of wild orgasms.
Make the night all about her, and once she is satisfied she will have no problem returning the favor.
Here’s the thing...a man’s orgasm comes way too easily in comparison to a woman’s...
It can take us, on average 4X longer to reach an orgasm than it takes a man, and men are averaging anywhere between 3 to 15 minutes!
Plus, after a guy has his first orgasm, he has to rest up and take a lot more time to recover before having a second go. Women are the complete opposite! We can keep on going =)
So if you want to give your girl multiple O’s, you have to take the time to make sure she is fully aroused and is constantly being mentally and physically stimulated.
2.) Prepare the Clit
A woman’s clit is INCREDIBLY sensitive to any kind of physical sensation.
It must be fully primed and ready before any kind of direct stimulation!
For the BEST results though, you should avoid touching that area for at least 15 minutes...
Holding off for a while will not only cause a TON of sexual tension and anticipation...
But it will also give her body time to fully awaken her sexual organs...most importantly, her mind.
Make sure your woman is comfortable and free from any stress. If she is mentally distracted in any way at all, you won't be able to give her a single orgasm, let alone multiple!
Take all the time you can to caress every inch of her warm body. Start from the top, running your fingertips along the sides of her arms while kissing her neck and gently nibbling on her earlobes =)
Play with her hair, but change the pace every so often by tugging on it a little harder.
When you do this, easily bite the sides of her neck and work your way towards her collarbone.
Lick around and near her nipples, but don’t actually come into contact with them yet...
Tease her, cup her breasts in the palms of your hands and kiss her entire stomach as you watch her breathing become shallow...
Her eyes will roll to the back of her head, she may pull you in closer, or bite down on her bottom lip...
These are all signs that her clit is slowly getting wet and ready for you, but continue playing with her until she just can’t take the teasing any longer!
Graze your hand over her vagina so lightly that it feels like a feather is being brushed up against her clit.
After doing all this, she’ll be so turned on, that a night of multiple orgasms will be cake!
Whew!! I'm getting turned on over here!! ;)
3. Know Your Way Around
Just because a woman’s clit is super small doesn’t mean it’s not incredibly powerful!!
A clit actually has over 8,000 nerve endings while your junk only has about 4,000...You do the math!
This tiny erogenous zone has the ability to feel sensations that are so strong, they can spread across a woman’s entire pelvic area affecting another 15,000 other nerve endings.
Amazing right? I love being a woman =)
Of course most guys generally know what a clit is and where to find it, but they don’t truly understand how everything all works together.
For example...the inside of the vagina is actually LESS sensitive than the outer parts of the vagina.
The best way to learn your way around and to be able to give her the most enjoyable sexual stimulation, carefully touch different parts of her clit, including the inner and outer lips of her vagina.
While doing this, watch the way she reacts to each sensation. That way you can understand what’s more sensitive for her, what makes her tick, and what parts to pay special attention to.
Try stimulating the clit in a variety of ways too...
Use circular patterns, move your finger up and down or back and forth.
Also, be sure to play around with different levels of pressure. You can start out by rubbing it very gently and then get stronger as she warms up.
I personally like lighter pressure at first, but as I become more turned on I’m all about stronger pressure!
Remember that all women are different so be sure to talk to her about what she likes. This will also make it easier for you to give her a ton and tons of orgasms!
4. Use Your Fingers
Some of the best orgasms a woman can experience is by receiving inner and outer stimulation...
Plus, those are the ones that always come on the quickest.
Try these 2 techniques:
#1 When your girl is laying down, position yourself beside her, place the palm of your hand over her vagina and press against her pubic bone.
Then, insert a finger or two (whatever she prefers) and move them in a “come here” motion.
While doing this, the palm of your hand is giving her clit direct stimulation while your fingers are doing the rest of the work.
This technique is one of my favorites and definitely works best with harder pressure. Go slow at first. If she wants more pressure, she will let you know, TRUST ME!
You’ll notice that she will push against the palm of your hand and pull you into her =)
You’ll notice that she will push against the palm of your hand and pull you into her =)
#2. Have your girl stand up and rest her arm around your neck to keep balanced.
Use two fingers and insert them into her, but only go about an inch deep.
Position your fingers so that they are moving upwards as if you’re trying to touch her belly button. You should feel a spongy area here.
Continue to stimulate it in a “come here” motion at a fast speed. But be prepared...Doing this might even make your girl squirt! =)
I guarantee that using any of these tips this will give her more than one orgasm and very, quickly...but remember to keep a steady rhythm or it can throw off her ability to come the first time!
5.) The 3-Minute Window
During foreplay there is something I like to call the 3-minute window.
Once you give your girl her first orgasm, she will be ultra sensitive to any touch, so be sure to give her about two minutes to catch her breath.
During these two minutes, DO NOT STOP PHYSICAL STIMULATION on other parts of her body!
Continue rubbing up against her skin, kissing her breasts, or talking a little dirty to her =)
Then, use that last minute to go back to rubbing her clit and vagina, but use a lighter stimulation so she isn’t too overwhelmed.
During this time, your girl will be feeling a tingling sensation from the first orgasm and her vagina muscles will be contracting.
This why you want to go in for the next orgasm within those three minutes...
She is sensitive, but her lady part is already feeling those orgasm contractions that will cause her next climax to come on FASTER and STRONGER!
Well, that's it!! I hope you've enjoyed my tips =)
Use two fingers and insert them into her, but only go about an inch deep.
Position your fingers so that they are moving upwards as if you’re trying to touch her belly button. You should feel a spongy area here.
Continue to stimulate it in a “come here” motion at a fast speed. But be prepared...Doing this might even make your girl squirt! =)
I guarantee that using any of these tips this will give her more than one orgasm and very, quickly...but remember to keep a steady rhythm or it can throw off her ability to come the first time!
5.) The 3-Minute Window
During foreplay there is something I like to call the 3-minute window.
Once you give your girl her first orgasm, she will be ultra sensitive to any touch, so be sure to give her about two minutes to catch her breath.
During these two minutes, DO NOT STOP PHYSICAL STIMULATION on other parts of her body!
Continue rubbing up against her skin, kissing her breasts, or talking a little dirty to her =)
Then, use that last minute to go back to rubbing her clit and vagina, but use a lighter stimulation so she isn’t too overwhelmed.
During this time, your girl will be feeling a tingling sensation from the first orgasm and her vagina muscles will be contracting.
This why you want to go in for the next orgasm within those three minutes...
She is sensitive, but her lady part is already feeling those orgasm contractions that will cause her next climax to come on FASTER and STRONGER!
Well, that's it!! I hope you've enjoyed my tips =)
My 7 Tricks To Attract HOT Women
Do you ever wonder how the most average looking guys always land the HOTTEST women?
Do you dream about being with GORGEOUS women that look like super models, but you just can’t seem to figure out how to score?
Well, the first thing you must do is keep in mind that these average men who are swooping up all the sexy women are successful at it for ONE reason:
It’s the way they present themselves.
Most guys are afraid to approach a hot woman or feel intimidated because they feel out of her league...but it’s not always about looks!
You don’t have to be rich and good looking to get the girl!
Check out my 6 ways to attract all kinds of hot women...ways to make them go so crazy they’ll be coming at you from every direction =)
1.) Have a Strong Dating Record
Think about this for a second:
Do you ever notice that women aren’t attracted to you for a long period of time, but as soon as you've got some pretty arm candy, you’re all the sudden ten times hotter?
Well, this kind of thing happens ALL the time.
Women are subconsciously drawn to men who are taken because they are seeing you in a romantic light.
They see that you are a gentleman and that you’re probably an all around decent guy...well that’s what she expects when you’ve have beautiful girl at your side.
And if you’ve got a ring on your finger, it shows a woman you can commit!
Yes, women are competitive creatures and can get pretty aggressive when the man she wants is unavailable, but she’s not doing it on purpose (well not always =)).
When a man is taken, it makes a woman want to know what else you’ve got going on. They want to find out what makes you so special and how you won yourself that hot piece of booty.
The girl-on-girl challenge is incredibly alluring to most women. We constantly try to one up each other and try to be the sexiest one in a group when we all go out. It’s our basic instinct...
And this also goes for dating...
Once a girl sees that you’re busy with other women, she automatically wonders why she didn’t get you first and her interest in you will grow much stronger!
So get out there and get yourself some dates with a ton of average women.
This will keep you busy and make you unavailable...ultimately forcing the hotter women to naturally gravitate to your magnetic charm =)
2.) Be Mysterious
A woman loves a man who’s got a little mystery in him.
It keeps them intrigued and eager to find out more about you.
You never want to reveal your entire life’s story all at once, especially all of your juicier details.
Doing this will ruin all anticipation and it leaves no room for surprises...and women really like surprises.
When the two of you get the conversation flowing, especially through texting...it’s very easy to confess all of your secrets and highlight every winning moment of your life before your first date.
But if you do this...it might come back to bite you in the butt.
You can say too much too soon and she might decide she’s just not that into you.
This is because giving her too much up front is also giving her the chance to jump to conclusions.
She may think she’s already got you figured out a little too quickly and that's a big no no.
So...hold some stuff back and share little things about yourself here and there. She’ll be much more impressed when she finally learns your finer points on her own =)
3.) Have a Plan
Not just hot women, but ALL women want a man who is goal-oriented, and knows what he wants out of life.
This is a HUGE turn on for a woman! It shows her that you are CONFIDENT, intelligent and you have enthusiasm.
And if she’s anything like me, she's gonna want a man that'll keep her balanced, someone to help her set goals and accomplish ambitions.
Well, the same goes for a 1st, 2nd, or even 3rd date. When you’re taking out a hot girl, make a plan and show her that you care enough to follow through with every last detail.
Don’t just ask her what she feels like doing and make a decision based on her answer!
Put some thought into it, and once you figure something out, tell her exactly where you are going, the time you’re picking her up and fill her in on the dress code so that she can dress accordingly -)
Plan out every last detail. She will be blown away and fall head over heals for you!
4.) Don't Be So Easy
Think about how good it feels when you’ve been working so hard to save up for that new car you’ve had your eye on, and then finally...
You buy it all on your own with no one’s help, not even a co-signer.
You value it a lot more now don’t you? It’s yours and you worked very hard for it!
That’s because you earned it! You see, when things come too easy, the value of it lessens and this especially goes for dating hot women.
If you make yourself available all the time, a woman will start to expect it. She will know that you’ll be there whenever she calls and soon her interest in you will disappear.
Or even worse...she’ll start to take advantage of you =(
You always want to keep her guessing. Women like the game just as much as men do.
How many times have you been so into a girl and then lost interest because she gave herself up too quickly? It’s because the chase is gone.
Well, hot women feel that too! So your best bet is to always be unpredictable.
Don’t cancel a night out with the guys just so you can see her. It’s OK to reschedule as long as you're not flaking on an already planned date!
Besides, that shows you are loyal to your friends too and it means you’re one of the good ones.
The more work you let a woman put into being with you, the more she’ll want it, and that definitely includes sexy time in the bedroom.
5.) Just Go For It Already
Do you dream about being with GORGEOUS women that look like super models, but you just can’t seem to figure out how to score?
Well, the first thing you must do is keep in mind that these average men who are swooping up all the sexy women are successful at it for ONE reason:
It’s the way they present themselves.
Most guys are afraid to approach a hot woman or feel intimidated because they feel out of her league...but it’s not always about looks!
You don’t have to be rich and good looking to get the girl!
Check out my 6 ways to attract all kinds of hot women...ways to make them go so crazy they’ll be coming at you from every direction =)
1.) Have a Strong Dating Record
Think about this for a second:
Do you ever notice that women aren’t attracted to you for a long period of time, but as soon as you've got some pretty arm candy, you’re all the sudden ten times hotter?
Well, this kind of thing happens ALL the time.
Women are subconsciously drawn to men who are taken because they are seeing you in a romantic light.
They see that you are a gentleman and that you’re probably an all around decent guy...well that’s what she expects when you’ve have beautiful girl at your side.
And if you’ve got a ring on your finger, it shows a woman you can commit!
Yes, women are competitive creatures and can get pretty aggressive when the man she wants is unavailable, but she’s not doing it on purpose (well not always =)).
When a man is taken, it makes a woman want to know what else you’ve got going on. They want to find out what makes you so special and how you won yourself that hot piece of booty.
The girl-on-girl challenge is incredibly alluring to most women. We constantly try to one up each other and try to be the sexiest one in a group when we all go out. It’s our basic instinct...
And this also goes for dating...
Once a girl sees that you’re busy with other women, she automatically wonders why she didn’t get you first and her interest in you will grow much stronger!
So get out there and get yourself some dates with a ton of average women.
This will keep you busy and make you unavailable...ultimately forcing the hotter women to naturally gravitate to your magnetic charm =)
2.) Be Mysterious
A woman loves a man who’s got a little mystery in him.
It keeps them intrigued and eager to find out more about you.
You never want to reveal your entire life’s story all at once, especially all of your juicier details.
Doing this will ruin all anticipation and it leaves no room for surprises...and women really like surprises.
When the two of you get the conversation flowing, especially through texting...it’s very easy to confess all of your secrets and highlight every winning moment of your life before your first date.
But if you do this...it might come back to bite you in the butt.
You can say too much too soon and she might decide she’s just not that into you.
This is because giving her too much up front is also giving her the chance to jump to conclusions.
She may think she’s already got you figured out a little too quickly and that's a big no no.
So...hold some stuff back and share little things about yourself here and there. She’ll be much more impressed when she finally learns your finer points on her own =)
3.) Have a Plan
Not just hot women, but ALL women want a man who is goal-oriented, and knows what he wants out of life.
This is a HUGE turn on for a woman! It shows her that you are CONFIDENT, intelligent and you have enthusiasm.
And if she’s anything like me, she's gonna want a man that'll keep her balanced, someone to help her set goals and accomplish ambitions.
Well, the same goes for a 1st, 2nd, or even 3rd date. When you’re taking out a hot girl, make a plan and show her that you care enough to follow through with every last detail.
Don’t just ask her what she feels like doing and make a decision based on her answer!
Put some thought into it, and once you figure something out, tell her exactly where you are going, the time you’re picking her up and fill her in on the dress code so that she can dress accordingly -)
Plan out every last detail. She will be blown away and fall head over heals for you!
4.) Don't Be So Easy
Think about how good it feels when you’ve been working so hard to save up for that new car you’ve had your eye on, and then finally...
You buy it all on your own with no one’s help, not even a co-signer.
You value it a lot more now don’t you? It’s yours and you worked very hard for it!
That’s because you earned it! You see, when things come too easy, the value of it lessens and this especially goes for dating hot women.
If you make yourself available all the time, a woman will start to expect it. She will know that you’ll be there whenever she calls and soon her interest in you will disappear.
Or even worse...she’ll start to take advantage of you =(
You always want to keep her guessing. Women like the game just as much as men do.
How many times have you been so into a girl and then lost interest because she gave herself up too quickly? It’s because the chase is gone.
Well, hot women feel that too! So your best bet is to always be unpredictable.
Don’t cancel a night out with the guys just so you can see her. It’s OK to reschedule as long as you're not flaking on an already planned date!
Besides, that shows you are loyal to your friends too and it means you’re one of the good ones.
The more work you let a woman put into being with you, the more she’ll want it, and that definitely includes sexy time in the bedroom.
5.) Just Go For It Already
The minute you and a hot girl eye sex each other from across the room, or once it’s been made clear that she’s noticed you, don’t even think about leaving her hanging!
Remember that hot women have guys coming at them all day every day and if you don’t have the balls to approach her for that first kiss or even just to exchange a few words and grab her number...
She will be more than happy to move right on to the next guy who will.
So grow a pair and make your move.
To her, you are just like every other guy in that room and you don’t matter yet, so be sure to show her that you are worth her while and that you are a confident man who isn’t afraid of being rejected.
If she sees that you are hesitant about saying hello, she will think that you're just not really into her or that you’re too shy, and she will most likely lose interest.
If you find a woman attractive and want to get to know her...just go for it!
6.) Change It Up
Blowing it with a woman is very easy (and I don’t mean with your load) =)
BUT...one of the biggest ways to turn a hot woman off is by being totally predictable.
Women crave the anticipation and excitement that comes with leaving her guessing.
It will keep her on her toes and really spark her attention because she’ll never know what to expect.
Don’t be scared to mix things up a bit either. It’s OK to change your plans and do something other than what was expected.
If you just take her to dinner three times a week, your woman will get bored very, very fast.
So, instead of going to dinner one of those nights, surprise her with a tasty, home cooked meal at your place.
Instead of going for your normal evening run, take her to a yoga class for the night.
I guarantee if you keep her guessing and throw in some unexpected adventures once in a while, you will have no problem keeping her around and keeping her very, very happy =)
7.) Don’t Be The Desperate Dude
If you haven’t been with many hot women before...act like it anyway!
You don’t want to seem like a total rookie!
Once the initial connection has been made and you’ve been on the first date, don't start calling her every day.
You will lose her in no time at all =(
Women enjoy and NEED their space, so give it to her.
When she texts you, make her wait for your response and when she calls you, don’t always answer right away.
Let her leave a cute message and call her back in 20 minutes =)
As long as you actually call her back, you’re doing just fine!
When dealing with a hot woman, it can be really hard not to want to hang out with her all the time, but you never want to make this desire obvious.
If you do, she will think you have no friends, you have no other interests, and you’re a little too lovesick and those are ALL turn offs!
Don’t give her a hard time when she isn’t available over the weekend or when she wants to go out with her girlfriends. It’s totally healthy to allow this kind of space.
It makes a relationship grow stronger and it makes you really stand out, because she knows that you're a man who can hold his own =)
Now let me ask you something...
What's the difference between the guy who gets to sleep with the hot girl and the dozens of guys who try and FAIL?
It's simple: The guys who get laid know EXACTLY hot to get a girl sexually turned on BEFORE they even get to the bedroom.
Just because you now have my 7 tips to attracting hot women doesn't mean you're guaranteed sex...
Remember that hot women have guys coming at them all day every day and if you don’t have the balls to approach her for that first kiss or even just to exchange a few words and grab her number...
She will be more than happy to move right on to the next guy who will.
So grow a pair and make your move.
To her, you are just like every other guy in that room and you don’t matter yet, so be sure to show her that you are worth her while and that you are a confident man who isn’t afraid of being rejected.
If she sees that you are hesitant about saying hello, she will think that you're just not really into her or that you’re too shy, and she will most likely lose interest.
If you find a woman attractive and want to get to know her...just go for it!
6.) Change It Up
Blowing it with a woman is very easy (and I don’t mean with your load) =)
BUT...one of the biggest ways to turn a hot woman off is by being totally predictable.
Women crave the anticipation and excitement that comes with leaving her guessing.
It will keep her on her toes and really spark her attention because she’ll never know what to expect.
Don’t be scared to mix things up a bit either. It’s OK to change your plans and do something other than what was expected.
If you just take her to dinner three times a week, your woman will get bored very, very fast.
So, instead of going to dinner one of those nights, surprise her with a tasty, home cooked meal at your place.
Instead of going for your normal evening run, take her to a yoga class for the night.
I guarantee if you keep her guessing and throw in some unexpected adventures once in a while, you will have no problem keeping her around and keeping her very, very happy =)
7.) Don’t Be The Desperate Dude
If you haven’t been with many hot women before...act like it anyway!
You don’t want to seem like a total rookie!
Once the initial connection has been made and you’ve been on the first date, don't start calling her every day.
You will lose her in no time at all =(
Women enjoy and NEED their space, so give it to her.
When she texts you, make her wait for your response and when she calls you, don’t always answer right away.
Let her leave a cute message and call her back in 20 minutes =)
As long as you actually call her back, you’re doing just fine!
When dealing with a hot woman, it can be really hard not to want to hang out with her all the time, but you never want to make this desire obvious.
If you do, she will think you have no friends, you have no other interests, and you’re a little too lovesick and those are ALL turn offs!
Don’t give her a hard time when she isn’t available over the weekend or when she wants to go out with her girlfriends. It’s totally healthy to allow this kind of space.
It makes a relationship grow stronger and it makes you really stand out, because she knows that you're a man who can hold his own =)
Now let me ask you something...
What's the difference between the guy who gets to sleep with the hot girl and the dozens of guys who try and FAIL?
It's simple: The guys who get laid know EXACTLY hot to get a girl sexually turned on BEFORE they even get to the bedroom.
Just because you now have my 7 tips to attracting hot women doesn't mean you're guaranteed sex...
You MUST know how to get her feeling frisky, and wanting to come over for steamy, slippery, naked action!
And to help you out, I have something for you...
And to help you out, I have something for you...
It's your personal step-by-step guide to getting the girl you want, how to spark attraction, and how to take things to a physical level faster than you could ever wish for!
And you won't just learn how to get a date... You'll also learn how to get a girl from a date to the bedroom, secrets to MULTIPLE orgasms, and what to do the day AFTER you have sex to be sure she sticks around =)
And you won't just learn how to get a date... You'll also learn how to get a girl from a date to the bedroom, secrets to MULTIPLE orgasms, and what to do the day AFTER you have sex to be sure she sticks around =)
3 Ways To Find Out EXACTLY What She Wants In Bed
1. ) Ask Her
If you ask a woman what she likes or wants, it gives her the chance to actually tell you...
And even though asking for the first time might be a little awkward, don’t get discouraged because soon enough, you will both be more comfortable and the sex will be 10X HOTTER!! Trust me =)
Get your girl to speak up and tell you what she wants by giving her positive feedback.
Say something like...“Watching you is making me so hot! Do you want me to rub you faster?”
Asking her yes or no questions will help you figure out what she likes in an indirect way...but NEVER just ask, "What do you want me to do?"It's a BIG TURN OFF and she'll just assume you're inexperienced =(
Try These:
“Do you want me to do this harder?”
“Do you like when I pinch your nipple? Should I do it softer or harder?”
“Is this your sweet spot baby?”
Then, when the situation is flipped, say something positive to your girl during sex that also makes it easier for her to do exactly what YOU want her to.
Example: “Baby that feels incredible, suck me harder!”
By saying something like this, not only are you are giving her positive feedback, but you’re making her feel that she is doing a good job at pleasing you...
And that will only make her want to work harder to maxamize YOUR pleasure! It's a win win! =)
2.) Let HER Show You
If your girl feels a little uneasy telling you what she wants out loud, ask her to SHOW you.
Assure her that it’s OK to move your hands from one spot on her body to another area that may feel better or increase her pleasure.
For instance, if you are using your tongue on your woman’s clit, try using different techniques and ask her to moan louder or raise her hips towards your mouth when she’s really enjoying what you are doing.
Tell her to show you how she wants to be touched, rubbed, or licked, on specific parts of her body and let her know that you’re feelings won’t get hurt if she is honest.
Remember J? I told you about him in my last email. He's the new guy in my life =)
Well, he introduced me to a very sensual game that gives each lover an exciting, and nonverbal way to show each other how they’d like to be touched.
For about 15 minutes, touch your girl EXACTLY the way YOU like to be touched, and then reverse roles and let her touch you the way SHE wants to be touched.
It’s really fun and it’s an easy way to get to know each other’s bodies without feeling pressured or uneasy!
3.) Be Very Hands On
Being hands on doesn’t mean to start grabbing and groping every inch of your woman’s body. No one likes sloppiness =(
Well...unless it's a wet and sloppy blowjob hehe =p
You learn by doing right? Well, same thing goes for sex...
Instead, tease and warm her up while paying EXTRA attention to her body’s language and movement. Touch, caress, taste, and lick EVERY inch of her. Then watch for her responses.
Making your way around her entire body will help you learn EXACTLY what gets her HOT!!
For instance, when your girl starts breathing heavily and her heart is beating faster than normal, it means more blood is flowing to her lady parts and she's getting warmed up =)
Also, check out her nipples and labia...
The extra blood flow will actually make them appear darker in color and the clit will look swollen.
That’s when you know you’re doing something she likes and you’re getting closer to giving her the big "O"!
Use your fingers and put them inside of her while stimulating her clit. If she pushes herself against your hand...
She is DEFINITELY enjoying herself and you should continue what you’re doing =)
If she's just lying there limp...well it's probably not happening for her and you NEED to change the pace!
When you're making your way around a woman's body and you KNOW you hit one of her sweet spots, try saying something like this...
"You look so sexy moving your hips like that. I want you to cum for me baby."
"You like the way I'm rubbing your clit don't you? Can I taste you?"
Asking her questions and complimenting her during sex will get her to to be more vocal with you. Plus, a little dirty talk can loosen her up and turn her on even MORE =)
So there you have it! My three tips to enhance your communication in the bedroom!
Now, pick up a copy of my program Extreme Female Orgasms, and you will know exactly which one to give her =)
Remember that reading and understanding your woman's body language only means INCREASED pleasure for both of you!
And you can NEVER stop learning when it comes to sex <3 span="">
If you ask a woman what she likes or wants, it gives her the chance to actually tell you...
And even though asking for the first time might be a little awkward, don’t get discouraged because soon enough, you will both be more comfortable and the sex will be 10X HOTTER!! Trust me =)
Get your girl to speak up and tell you what she wants by giving her positive feedback.
Say something like...“Watching you is making me so hot! Do you want me to rub you faster?”
Asking her yes or no questions will help you figure out what she likes in an indirect way...but NEVER just ask, "What do you want me to do?"It's a BIG TURN OFF and she'll just assume you're inexperienced =(
Try These:
“Do you want me to do this harder?”
“Do you like when I pinch your nipple? Should I do it softer or harder?”
“Is this your sweet spot baby?”
Then, when the situation is flipped, say something positive to your girl during sex that also makes it easier for her to do exactly what YOU want her to.
Example: “Baby that feels incredible, suck me harder!”
By saying something like this, not only are you are giving her positive feedback, but you’re making her feel that she is doing a good job at pleasing you...
And that will only make her want to work harder to maxamize YOUR pleasure! It's a win win! =)
2.) Let HER Show You
If your girl feels a little uneasy telling you what she wants out loud, ask her to SHOW you.
Assure her that it’s OK to move your hands from one spot on her body to another area that may feel better or increase her pleasure.
For instance, if you are using your tongue on your woman’s clit, try using different techniques and ask her to moan louder or raise her hips towards your mouth when she’s really enjoying what you are doing.
Tell her to show you how she wants to be touched, rubbed, or licked, on specific parts of her body and let her know that you’re feelings won’t get hurt if she is honest.
Remember J? I told you about him in my last email. He's the new guy in my life =)
Well, he introduced me to a very sensual game that gives each lover an exciting, and nonverbal way to show each other how they’d like to be touched.
For about 15 minutes, touch your girl EXACTLY the way YOU like to be touched, and then reverse roles and let her touch you the way SHE wants to be touched.
It’s really fun and it’s an easy way to get to know each other’s bodies without feeling pressured or uneasy!
3.) Be Very Hands On
Being hands on doesn’t mean to start grabbing and groping every inch of your woman’s body. No one likes sloppiness =(
Well...unless it's a wet and sloppy blowjob hehe =p
You learn by doing right? Well, same thing goes for sex...
Instead, tease and warm her up while paying EXTRA attention to her body’s language and movement. Touch, caress, taste, and lick EVERY inch of her. Then watch for her responses.
Making your way around her entire body will help you learn EXACTLY what gets her HOT!!
For instance, when your girl starts breathing heavily and her heart is beating faster than normal, it means more blood is flowing to her lady parts and she's getting warmed up =)
Also, check out her nipples and labia...
The extra blood flow will actually make them appear darker in color and the clit will look swollen.
That’s when you know you’re doing something she likes and you’re getting closer to giving her the big "O"!
Use your fingers and put them inside of her while stimulating her clit. If she pushes herself against your hand...
She is DEFINITELY enjoying herself and you should continue what you’re doing =)
If she's just lying there limp...well it's probably not happening for her and you NEED to change the pace!
When you're making your way around a woman's body and you KNOW you hit one of her sweet spots, try saying something like this...
"You look so sexy moving your hips like that. I want you to cum for me baby."
"You like the way I'm rubbing your clit don't you? Can I taste you?"
Asking her questions and complimenting her during sex will get her to to be more vocal with you. Plus, a little dirty talk can loosen her up and turn her on even MORE =)
So there you have it! My three tips to enhance your communication in the bedroom!
Now, pick up a copy of my program Extreme Female Orgasms, and you will know exactly which one to give her =)
Remember that reading and understanding your woman's body language only means INCREASED pleasure for both of you!
And you can NEVER stop learning when it comes to sex <3 span="">
3 HOT Oral Tips!
1. The Clit Suck
The technique is my absolute favorite because it allows a man to really stimulate the entire clit...
And that means you hit ALL of the RIGHT pleasure points =)
Start by spreading her vaginal lips and lightly pulling back the clitoral hood so that the clit is fully exposed.
Put your mouth over it, lick it very gently...and then pull back. Continue teasing and using your tongue very lightly.
Remember to take your time..she will LOVE this!
You want to keep it light and simple at first. Don't use teeth and start sucking right away! You have to warm her up first.
Then, put your mouth directly on her clit and begin to suck (DON'T BITE!). While you are sucking, use one finger and insert it into her vagina.
Position your finger upwards so that you can hit her G-Spot at the same time. This will TRIPLE the intensity she feels!
After a few minutes of stimulation, I guarantee this technique will give your woman an orgasm that will leave her panting in ecstasy! =)
2. The Alphabet
Mmmm, the Alphabet is the most AMAZING technique ever!!=)
Use your tongue to carefully trace out the alphabet on and around your woman's clit!
In this technique, your tongue will constantly be moving in every direction so that you can stimulate her most sensitive spots.
As you go through the entire alphabet one letter at a time, her pleasure will escalate and get STRONGER as you get to the end...
Leaving your girl with an intense, toe-curling, orgasm!
Just beware...she might leave a few claw marks on your back from pulling you into her as she comes =p Don’t say I didn’t warn you!
3. The Flick
Before I reveal this special trick, keep in mind that ALL women are different!
It’s VERY important to keep an eye on YOUR girl and watch the way she responds to the technique. That way you are certain she’s enjoying herself.
pay attention to the way YOUR girl responds. You want to make sure she is liking what you’re doing or she could become uncomfortable =(
Ok...first be sure to spread her outer vaginal lips apart.
Then, with a POINTED tongue, gently flick around and near her clit.
The clit is DEFINITELY the most sensitive area, but never be afraid to move around and explore other parts of her vagina as well.
Flicking the clit correctly can bring on A TON of pleasure! I've actually cum from flicking alone and it’s the greatest sensation ever!!
I hope you enjoyed my tips =)
Try them out tonight!
The technique is my absolute favorite because it allows a man to really stimulate the entire clit...
And that means you hit ALL of the RIGHT pleasure points =)
Start by spreading her vaginal lips and lightly pulling back the clitoral hood so that the clit is fully exposed.
Put your mouth over it, lick it very gently...and then pull back. Continue teasing and using your tongue very lightly.
Remember to take your time..she will LOVE this!
You want to keep it light and simple at first. Don't use teeth and start sucking right away! You have to warm her up first.
Then, put your mouth directly on her clit and begin to suck (DON'T BITE!). While you are sucking, use one finger and insert it into her vagina.
Position your finger upwards so that you can hit her G-Spot at the same time. This will TRIPLE the intensity she feels!
After a few minutes of stimulation, I guarantee this technique will give your woman an orgasm that will leave her panting in ecstasy! =)
2. The Alphabet
Mmmm, the Alphabet is the most AMAZING technique ever!!=)
Use your tongue to carefully trace out the alphabet on and around your woman's clit!
In this technique, your tongue will constantly be moving in every direction so that you can stimulate her most sensitive spots.
As you go through the entire alphabet one letter at a time, her pleasure will escalate and get STRONGER as you get to the end...
Leaving your girl with an intense, toe-curling, orgasm!
Just beware...she might leave a few claw marks on your back from pulling you into her as she comes =p Don’t say I didn’t warn you!
3. The Flick
Before I reveal this special trick, keep in mind that ALL women are different!
It’s VERY important to keep an eye on YOUR girl and watch the way she responds to the technique. That way you are certain she’s enjoying herself.
pay attention to the way YOUR girl responds. You want to make sure she is liking what you’re doing or she could become uncomfortable =(
Ok...first be sure to spread her outer vaginal lips apart.
Then, with a POINTED tongue, gently flick around and near her clit.
The clit is DEFINITELY the most sensitive area, but never be afraid to move around and explore other parts of her vagina as well.
Flicking the clit correctly can bring on A TON of pleasure! I've actually cum from flicking alone and it’s the greatest sensation ever!!
I hope you enjoyed my tips =)
Try them out tonight!
5 really creative ideas
that will completely blow your woman away!!
2. Have A Fireplace Picnic
I really like this date idea because it’s super comfy, romantic, and it definitely beats going out...plus, you can do it in your pajamas!!
First, be sure to clean up your place a bit! Use dim lighting to set the mood, put out few candles, and create a list of steamy love jams that you can play in the background.
Head over to your local market and choose a few different kinds of cheeses and meats to go with a tasty bottle of wine.
Actually...there’s this great wine pairing guide that I really like!
3. DIY Dinner and Dessert
One of my absolute FAVORITE things to do...when I’ve got a man of course...is to cook together.
So many couples have this idea that they HAVE to go out to dinner on Valentine’s Day...but it’s totally unnecessary and it’s super overpriced!
Instead, spend quality time with each other and bond while making a home-cooked meal in the comfort of your very own home =)
And don’t forget the BEST part!! The dessert! Once dinner is finished, make yummy chocolate covered strawberries and have some sexy fun with the melted chocolate...
Dip your fingers in the bowl and let your girl lick them clean...or put it on other parts of her body!
And if you feel like getting REALLY naughty...you can always cook in nothing but your aprons ;)
Now THAT sounds like my kind of Valentine’s Day!!
4. Give Her A Seductive Massage
Every woman wants to be pampered and taken care of, but sending her out for a spa day isn’t very original!
Instead...YOU be the one to give her a full body massage.
Giving your woman a good rub down isn’t just a perfect way to relieve stress...but it lets her know that you care, and it’s a fantastic way to get her in the mood =)
Before getting started...make sure the room is at a comfortable temperature so that she’s not cold, and have a couple of warm towels nearby.
Undress her, let her lay down on a harder surface to keep her muscles in line, and rest her head on a small pillow.
You also want to have a massage oil ready for her! Some of my favorite massage oils are Karma Sutra Massage Oils.
There’s one called Pleasure Garden and it uses a mix of jasmine, rose, lavender and sandalwood. It’s AMAZING! And it makes for a sensual and seductive massage =)
Here are 5 date ideas that she will never forget:
1. Make Love And Make Art
1. Make Love And Make Art
Get in touch with your creative side and go for something BOLD and SEXY! Express your love for each other by making a one-of-a-kind art masterpiece...
Head out to your local crafts store, pick up a couple bottles of washable, non-toxic body paint and a large, non-stretched canvas to fool around on =)
Light a few candles and get cozy in the bedroom. Then, cover each other’s bodies in paint and start getting busy!
Making art with your hot, naked bodies is exciting, unique, and really fun! Your girl will absolutely LOVE it!
A Few Tips:
Head out to your local crafts store, pick up a couple bottles of washable, non-toxic body paint and a large, non-stretched canvas to fool around on =)
Light a few candles and get cozy in the bedroom. Then, cover each other’s bodies in paint and start getting busy!
Making art with your hot, naked bodies is exciting, unique, and really fun! Your girl will absolutely LOVE it!
A Few Tips:
- Using non-stretched canvas is best! It’s flat and makes it easier to have sex on. Once it’s done, you can get it stretched and framed!
- Always lay out plastic sheeting so you don’t ruin your carpets.
- When you are finished, jump in the bath together and scrub the paint out of your skin with a warm, and sensual rub down =)
- For the best resutls, choose one or two colors only.
2. Have A Fireplace Picnic
I really like this date idea because it’s super comfy, romantic, and it definitely beats going out...plus, you can do it in your pajamas!!
First, be sure to clean up your place a bit! Use dim lighting to set the mood, put out few candles, and create a list of steamy love jams that you can play in the background.
Head over to your local market and choose a few different kinds of cheeses and meats to go with a tasty bottle of wine.
Actually...there’s this great wine pairing guide that I really like!
t gives you lots of great info about the types of wines you can get and exactly what cheeses and meats go best with them =)
Invite your special lady over, spread a blanket out in front of the fireplace, and enjoy a wine and cheese picnic...
Invite your special lady over, spread a blanket out in front of the fireplace, and enjoy a wine and cheese picnic...
You can even throw a few rose pedals around the blanket for some extra romance!
Your woman will appreciate this so much! It’s super thoughtful, sensual and it's guaranteed A TON of steamy sex by the fireplace ;)
Your woman will appreciate this so much! It’s super thoughtful, sensual and it's guaranteed A TON of steamy sex by the fireplace ;)
3. DIY Dinner and Dessert
One of my absolute FAVORITE things to do...when I’ve got a man of course...is to cook together.
So many couples have this idea that they HAVE to go out to dinner on Valentine’s Day...but it’s totally unnecessary and it’s super overpriced!
Instead, spend quality time with each other and bond while making a home-cooked meal in the comfort of your very own home =)
And don’t forget the BEST part!! The dessert! Once dinner is finished, make yummy chocolate covered strawberries and have some sexy fun with the melted chocolate...
Dip your fingers in the bowl and let your girl lick them clean...or put it on other parts of her body!
And if you feel like getting REALLY naughty...you can always cook in nothing but your aprons ;)
Now THAT sounds like my kind of Valentine’s Day!!
4. Give Her A Seductive Massage
Every woman wants to be pampered and taken care of, but sending her out for a spa day isn’t very original!
Instead...YOU be the one to give her a full body massage.
Giving your woman a good rub down isn’t just a perfect way to relieve stress...but it lets her know that you care, and it’s a fantastic way to get her in the mood =)
Before getting started...make sure the room is at a comfortable temperature so that she’s not cold, and have a couple of warm towels nearby.
Undress her, let her lay down on a harder surface to keep her muscles in line, and rest her head on a small pillow.
You also want to have a massage oil ready for her! Some of my favorite massage oils are Karma Sutra Massage Oils.
There’s one called Pleasure Garden and it uses a mix of jasmine, rose, lavender and sandalwood. It’s AMAZING! And it makes for a sensual and seductive massage =)
Once you’re all set, use your strong manly hands to give your woman a massage of a lifetime...
And when you’re finished pampering her, she is DEFINITELY going to return the favor...in more than one way ;)
5. Craft Beer Tasting
I don’t know about you, but I REALLY enjoy an ice-cold beer from time to time!
For a woman, drinking beer isn’t really ideal for an entire night...
But...craft beer tasting is so much better! Plus...there are a TON of flavors and beer styles that can help you learn what you like and don’t like.
The one thing I like best about craft beer tasting is opening up my senses, taking in the smells, and tasting the variety of sweet or spicy favors on my tongue. It also makes me horny sometimes =)
So, head to your local grocery store and grab about eight different kinds of beers.
If you have a Trader Joes or BevMo nearby, they have a HUGE selection of beers that you can buy by the bottle too!
You’ll need a few small taster glasses, some sparking water to clean your palate, and different foods that pair well with types of beer you bought.
And when you’re finished pampering her, she is DEFINITELY going to return the favor...in more than one way ;)
5. Craft Beer Tasting
I don’t know about you, but I REALLY enjoy an ice-cold beer from time to time!
For a woman, drinking beer isn’t really ideal for an entire night...
But...craft beer tasting is so much better! Plus...there are a TON of flavors and beer styles that can help you learn what you like and don’t like.
The one thing I like best about craft beer tasting is opening up my senses, taking in the smells, and tasting the variety of sweet or spicy favors on my tongue. It also makes me horny sometimes =)
So, head to your local grocery store and grab about eight different kinds of beers.
If you have a Trader Joes or BevMo nearby, they have a HUGE selection of beers that you can buy by the bottle too!
You’ll need a few small taster glasses, some sparking water to clean your palate, and different foods that pair well with types of beer you bought.
Once you’re all set, invite your woman over and have an intimate tasting session =)
This is a really great way to enjoy each other’s company, and get a nice buzz without worrying about a designated driver!! =)
This is a really great way to enjoy each other’s company, and get a nice buzz without worrying about a designated driver!! =)
Become A Tinder Master
How To Become A Tinder Master
And get that hottie from the screen and into your bed...
Tinder is the steamiest mobile dating game that gives you some of the SEXIEST women at your very own fingertips. It’s super easy and it's the HOTTEST way to meet the most BEAUTIFUL women...the kind of women you’ve been yearning for...
Once you’re in the digital mix of potential lovers, Tinder will connect you with a ton of gorgeous ladies IF you both “like” each other’s photos. After being matched up, you’re able to chat, exchange numbers and so on and so forth…
But, if you want to get these smoking hot women into your bedroom, you have to use Tinder wisely. With this app, you have the power to transform a virtual hook-up into a casual date and eventually get yourself laid =)
Online dating and social apps have become the most popular methods of finding true love, scoring one-night stands, short-term dating and even making new friends. Over 20 million people visit online dating sites at least once a month…
But just because so many people are doing it doesn’t make it anywhere near easy.
Reality is that getting that electronic hottie from the screen and in between your sheets is actually quite tricky!
You have to come up with the perfect bio, figure out something genuine to say in order to catch a woman’s attention, and actually take some decent photos that don’t make you look like a complete ass.
But the next time you’re trying to find the perfect lover while finger blasting the “heart” button at 3 A.M…you will be doing it as a Tinder Master! Just follow the tips in my special report and get ready for some wild nights =)
The 4 Things You Should Know When Using Tinder
1. Use the BEST photos of yourself.2. Always put some thought into a message before sending it.3. When a connection is made, get a number quickly.4. Never drink and Tinder.The Perfect PictureTaking the perfect picture for your Tinder profile is the single most IMPORTANT thing you have to do in order to win a lady over and get successfull results. Your photo is the very first thing they see and if you've got an unattractive one, they will "NOPE" you faster than you can blink.When you sign up for Tinder, it only allows you to upload photos from your Facebook profile, so be sure to carefully select the BEST ones and be sure the quality of the picture is decent.The first tip is to avoid ALL selfies. When taken the right way, selfies can definitely work for women, but not AT ALL for men. It’s the LEAST manly thing you could possibly do, and 99.9% of the time, you always look awkward when taking them.When a guy takes a selfie, he is stripping himself of all masculinity and self-respect. A selfie is just a way of begging a girl for attention, and hiding your true self. Overal, you will be promoting yourself as an egotistical dude with no friends, and that's a BIG turn off.The perfect photo should be welcoming, attractive and confident. It should show off the real you and all the great things you have to offer a woman. When using a picture, select the ones that have been taken in natural light with no flash. Flashes are too harsh and will only highlight your blemishes.You never want to take a picture that makes you look different than you would in person. Avoid covering your features with sunglasses, taking extreme close ups or using those uncomfortable angles and side shots that show only half of your face.The one thing I notice most is that most men won't smile in their pictures, but you should ALWAYS smile! Be as genuine as possible. Women WILL pick up on your body language and respond to positive and friendly emotions.When a woman views your photo, she should instantly trust that you're a safe, regular guy just looking to meet a pretty lady and have a good time. She will feel at ease and only then will she be comfortable, open, and more inclinded to send you a message or respond to yours.DO's And DON'Ts For The Best PhotoDon’t be the guy that can’t seem to find his shirt in every picture. Keep your clothes on...well at least for now =)Do take your time choosing a photo because first impressions always count!Don’t post pics of you all sweaty at the club or getting drunk with your buds. It's not sexy.Do show off your physique or some sexy skills you might have. Women are attracted to men who look healthy.Don’t take half-naked mirror selfies.Do take pictures with attractive women or friends who aren't as good looking as you. If you're the better looking one in a group, you're now the BEST choice.Don’t take strange pictures with your dog or any other animal. Animals won’t make you ANY hotter.Do use genuine photos that tell a story or that can be used as a conversation starter.The Perfect MessageOnce the matches start coming in and you’re ready to make your big approach, the biggest thing to remember when sending a Tinder message is to always be ORIGINAL.There is nothing worse for a girl than viewing a message and only seeing the word, “Hi” or "What's up?" It lacks creativity and shows that you haven't given it any thought. When this happens, the girl is going to think two things: You don’t care enough or that you’re incredibly lazy.The BEST way to get a girl’s attention is to be open and witty. All girls love a guy with a sense of humor. Send her something that she’s probably never heard before. An attractive woman gets countless messages that are boring and effortless. You must stand out! Women need to feel stimulated. You have to give her a reason to respond to you.Putting some thought into a message and taking the time to send a few tasteful words that will grab her attention will really make a difference.Show her that you actually read her bio by commenting on something she said. Use her profile as your initial conversation point. If there's not much there, try telling her a clever joke, asking her a question that WILL guarantee a response, or complimenting on her best picture. Overall, just keep it simple and be yourself.Examples of Great MessagesThe Basic Message With A Compliment:“You are just way too cute not to say hello…”“I love your unique sense of style. Most girls can't pull it off, but you are owning it. I love that dress in your last photo.”The Message That Ensures a Response:“Hey, I go hiking all the time. Have you ever hiked up to [insert place]?”(This is a good message if the girl says she’s into hiking on her profile.“[Insert band] is one of my favorite bands. I actually just saw them last month. Do you go to shows often?” (You can relate to the girl’s music taste.)The Message That Shows You Pay Attention To Details:"I'm curious. You have a great list of books, music, movies, shows and it says you're a writer, but you don't mention the type of content you write. Do you have a blog?"“I see that you're a whiskey drinker. Have you ever had Whistle Pig? It's a rye that's served with a little Maple. Maybe I can take you out to try it sometime."Messages That You Should NEVER Use“Please marry me.”“If I filled a hot tub with whipped cream, would you join me in it?”“Do you want to fu**? Let’s fu**.”“OMG you are so cute I just want to put you in my pocket and take you home.”“Do you like food? I’m taking you out.”“After months of sitting and starring at my screen and waiting for you to reply I figured it might be wise for me to move on. But, what am I supposed to do with the tattoo of your face on me?”“You are so hot. You look like my ex.”“Yo wut up?”The 3 Most Important Things To Remember1. Never ask a girl out in the very first message.2. Only say things that you would normally say to a girl in real life.3. Watch your grammar. Bad spelling is a big turn off. Avoid using words that can make a terrible first impression like: ur, wat, ya, r, u, luv or yo. I mean come on…is it really that difficult to spell out a three or four letter word?The CloseThe main reason people are trying to find lust in the digital world of Tinder is because it’s quick, casual and spontaneous. This means that if you’re interested in a girl, you've gotta be quick about it in order to turn your online catch into a real life lay =)When I say act fast I don’t mean to ask her out the very next day. You have to build a lining of trust first. A good rule of thumb is to banter back and forth for a few days. If you wait too long however, she will probably lose interest and move on to the next dude that she connects with.The turnaround time for a single message can take an entire day anyway, so just be patient and continue to show your interest. After a couple of days, you should have had enough time to briefly get to know each other, and if she’s still got you smiling, then ask her out.I’d say a week is the perfect amount of time to dip your feet in the water and scope out each other's personalities before meeting up in person. You don't want to seem to too eager up front or it will scare her off.Keep in mind that waiting is more of a concern to women than it is to men. This is because women have more to lose. There’s a ton of creeps out there...especially on potential serial killers, the foot fetish dudes, the overly excited guys…you get the point.Women feel the need to take there time. They want to feel a mental connection with you through your conversations or texts. They need to know for sure that going out with you won't be a waste of time.Don’t be pushy. Engage in some quick-witted conversations. Give her something to look forward to or something to be excited about. Figure out each other’s likes and dislikes, exchange phone numbers, text each other till the sun comes up and eventually, she’ll agree to an official date.Remember:Never be too aggressive or persistent. If a girl isn’t interested, take a hint! If she doesn’t respond the first time around, move on.The Drunken TinderDon't EVER get totally wasted and start playing the Tinder game. You will get sloppy, your judgment skills will go down the drain, and you’ll lose all control of your finger pressing abilities!When you start playing, a photo of a girl will pop up in your home page. Then you will get the chance to either swipe a big “NOPE” across her forehead or press the heart button and “like” her.If you get too anxious or excited, and start swiping through photos too quickly, you might “X” out a potential lover. Once this happens there's no going back. It’s done. Your digital goddess will be gone FOREVER!When you’re looking at someone’s profile, you can also click on the little camera icon at the bottom right-hand corner of the screen, which allows you to look at more than just one picture! If you’re drunk, you might just look at one photo and make a poor decision without giving it any thought.Then, you’ll end up drunkenly messaging girls with awful misspelled messages, make crude, disrespectful comments and make a total fool of yourself... possibly ruining an AMAZING connection with one of the HOTTEST girls on Tinder.
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