And how to make her addicted to it...
Many girls don’t really LOVE giving blowjobs. Some women hate it and refuse to go down on a guy even if he bribes her with pretty things and asks her nicely, and some women do it just to make the man happy because it’s part of the foreplay routine.
But in my opinion…there’s nothing more satisfying than having a guy finish in your mouth =)
Now, you might be one of the lucky guys. Maybe you have a girl who sucks your dick and actually really enjoys it. She finishes you off and gladly takes your load with a smile on her face.
But if your girl isn’t a fan of blowjobs…it can be a BIG disappointment and even make or break your sex life.
So, what’s really going on?
When your girl’s got her mouth full, she’s thinking about many different things…
“Hmm… I wish he trimmed.”
“Whoa, he smells a little funky today.”
“Does he even like what I’m doing? Moan damnit!”
“Wow, my jaw hurts. Why the hell is he taking so long?”
“Don’t gag. Don’t gag. Don’t gag.”
There are many reasons why a girl won’t suck cock, but I have the secrets that will get her to LOVE it and start doing the deed for her very own pleasure.
But, before you learn about my tips, you have to truly understand why girls don’t enjoy going downtown in the first place and how to completely change her mindset.
PART 1
The Four Reasons She Doesn't Give Blowjobs
1. You’re not clean.
2. She can’t stand the taste of your semen.
3. You’re not giving her feedback.
4. You take too long to finish.
Let me explain...
You're Not Clean
Here’s the thing: One of the biggest reasons your girl doesn’t like sucking you off is because you probably haven’t cleaned yourself up. If you really want her to enjoy using her tongue to its fullest potential, make a little effort to freshen up your junk.
Just because you showered in the morning doesn’t mean you’re good for the rest of the night. Chances are, if you’ve been working or running errands all day, you don’t have the best smell or taste down below.

So, for pleasurable oral sex, and more excitement from your girl, make it a point to wash up before she moves down south.
And don’t forget to keep yourself neat and trimmed. Girls HATE having to tackle a jungle of hair to get the goods.
Something to Remember: She will NEVER ask you to shave or trim your manly parts, (unless you’ve been together for a really long time) and it’s for very good reason.
A woman doesn't want to embarrass you or offend your grooming skills. So, just do it on your own and avoid the weirdness. Besides, less hair makes room for extra sensitivity, and you will get a lot more oral =)
She Can’t Stand the Taste of Your Semen
Does she spit or swallow? Personally, I like to swallow…but the majority of women would rather spit it out your jizz. However, if you make an attempt to jazz up your nut butter once in a while, your girl might think twice about downing your load.
All men have semen that tastes different, but the most common complaint I hear from my girlfriends on sperm taste is that it’s either bitter or very salty.
Sweeten Your Splooge
You can make your semen taste much better by eating fruits like watermelon, pineapple, cantaloupe and mango. Beer and coffee will only make your goo taste bitter, so those are better in small doses.
If she still can’t stand your taste, you can always cover it up =) If your girl’s got a sweet tooth, try dipping your dick in chocolate sauce or whipped cream.
Stick to the sweeter treats. They will sugarcoat your cock and the sex at the same time!
You're Not Giving Her Feedback
Another reason women don’t like going downtown is because they aren't confident enough. and they think they aren’t doing it wrong. I’ve said it over and over, and I’ll say it again…communication is the key to the best sex of your entire life.
Don’t leave your girl hanging with silence while she’s face first in your lap or she’ll become bored, frustrated or self-conscious...and the dick sucking will come to an end =(
She wants to be good at it and she wants to please you in every way that she can. If you’re quiet she will think she’s doing it all wrong and won’t want to do it again.
If you want the oral sex to become more frequent and easier for her so that she enjoys it, give your girl a lot of positive feedback.
Speak up and tell her what she is doing right and what you like best. Let her know if she is stroking too hard or too gently. If you enjoy what she’s doing, use body language and sounds to prove it to her.
You can also let her know what she is doing wrong, as long as you fill her in on how to do it better (just be nice about it). After all, practice makes perfect!
And if she doesn’t know what to do from the very start, SHOW HER. If you do everything you can to help her make you come, you will get better results, and I’m willing to bet that she’ll go down on you at any time without all the hang ups.
P.S. When you are ready to blow your load, you better give her fair warning! Or she'll probably slap you. Don't say I didn't give you a "heads" up... =)
You Take Too Long to Finish
If your girl is already resistant to giving you head, she sure as hell isn’t going to want to be down there for an entire 30 minutes!
If you take too long to finish, it’s not going to be pleasurable for her and it will start feeling like a chore. The experience will just become uncomfortable and annoying. I’d say good timing for a blowjob is anywhere between 5 to 10 minutes.
After that, it becomes less fun for your girl and her jaw and neck can get really sore. But a blowjob shouldn’t usually last that long anyway. If she is going down on you for a little pleasure before sex, the goal is just to tease and get you excited, not to finish you off.
Try these tips to make it easier on your girl:
Don’t put all the pressure on your girl. If you do, she’ll be bouncing her head all over the place trying her best to make you come. The goal shouldn’t be just to get you off, it should be to make you feel good, and to give you pleasure with her mouth.
Instead, teach her how to relax and take it slow. Let her practice finding all your hot spots or experimenting with different sensations that get you off. This will give her ease and make the experience much more enjoyable for the both of you.
Oral sex is incredible. It's my favorite part about sex- the build up, the angst, the passion... but blowjobs aren't just about receiving pleasure and releasing your load, they're about interacting with your girl to get her wet and really turned on at the same time.
Now that you understand WHY women don't always enjoy giving blowjobs, and how these hang ups can easily be fixed, we can move on...
PART 2
How to Make Your Woman LOVE Giving You Blowjobs
The first thing to remember is that if you’re giving your woman bad sex, she will NEVER willingly suck your cock. So, step one is obvious…
#1 Give Her GREAT Sex
Women will never settle for mediocre sex. They will surely move right on to the next guy who is ready and willing to do EVERYTHING he can to blow her mind. The best ways to give her greater sex is through foreplay, verbal cues, and guiding her.
Foreplay is not just something to do before having sex. It’s the KEY to an enhanced sex life and can make or break a relationship.
Now there are many foreplay techniques, but I think kissing is probably the most underrated one of them all. Women want passionate make out sessions! Making out with your girl for a good 20 minutes before bringing her into the bedroom will get her so turned on, she’ll probably undress herself.
Kiss her entire body and find all of her most sensitive areas. Show her that you appreciate what’s in front of you. Caress her stomach, her sides, and her chest. Lick and tease her nipples, the inner thighs and her neck.
One of my absolute favorite places to be kissed is my collarbone. It sends shivers down my spine every single time!
Take your time with her body and get her as anxious as possible to finally have sex with you. This will show her that you are patient and willing to make her feel as good as possible while putting her needs ahead of your own, which in the end…will get you a lot more blowjobs =)
#2 Be Verbal
Being verbal and using your voice in the bedroom will help stimulate her most important sexual organ: the MIND. For women, sex is a very emotional and mental form of intimacy. They are much more interested in what they are feeling, not doing.
Building a connection with your girl while having sex is a must if you are trying to give her any pleasure and the best way to do this is through communication.
Talk to your girl during sex, tell her how much you love the curves of her body, talk dirty to her and watch the way she responds to you. Use your voice when you’re feeling pleasure too. Moan, breathe heavily, and tell her what makes you feel good.
If you can stimulate her mind enough during sex, she will WANT to give you a blowjob and make you feel just as good as you are making her feel.
#3 Guide Her
Lastly, guide her…and by being verbal with her you are doing exactly that. Women like masculine men who are sexually confident and who can take control in the bedroom.
Initiate the sex and talk to her about your fantasies so that you can act them out together. Lead you girl through them by giving her sexy details about what you're craving the most…and that includes telling her you’d really like it if she went down on you.
Keep in Mind: If you are forceful about getting her to go down on you, she WILL back off. Don’t push her head down into your crotch, and don’t hold onto her hair and bob her head up and down.
Bur don't worry...once your girl starts to actually enjoy giving you blowjobs, you can slowly but surely get her addicted to it...
PART 3
Getting Her ADDICTED To Giving You Blowjobs
The desire to suck your cock is definitely in her. You just need to unleash her wild side...
Make Some Noise
The best oral sex experiences are a combination of two things: The heat of the moment and the chemistry. If you have both of those things, the entire process should just happen naturally. The noises you make when you’re super turned on or at your peak will be much louder and more intense.
It’s a HUGE turn on to hear a man moan and watch him squirm when he’s getting what he wants. When she’s down there, use your voice, and your body to show her just how much you’re into what she’s doing.
Most women are loud in bed to get a response from you, not just because they’re having a good time. So be a good lover and return the favor. When she is giving you a blowjob, be sure to tell her just how much you love it and let her look right into your eyes.
Try talking dirty to her. Tell her to spit on your cock and not to hold back, or say things like:
“Baby, what are you doing to me? This feels amazing!”
“Babe, you look so sexy. I love watching you go down on me.”
“See how deep you can take it.”
Reassuring her that you are enjoying what she is doing to you will also give her confidence and make her want to do it again. The most confident women value sex and initiate it more. Soon enough, she’ll start giving you blowjobs on her own =)
A woman’s goal is to please a man sexually. All the positive feedback and heated emotions you are giving off should immediately arouse your girl. It will make her feel incredibly sexy because she knows that SHE is the reason for your pleasure.
She will constantly desire you in the bedroom and become addicted to making you feel this good ALL the time.
Get Her to Give You A Blowjob After You’ve Given Her an Orgasm
Some guys think that a blowjob should always happen before the actual sex, but this isn’t true. Yes, during foreplay is a great time to do the deed, but there really isn’t a specific time to give a blowjob. The best time, however, is when you and your woman are both VERY turned on.
So, turn her on first and make sure she is thoroughly pleasured. A woman is at her highest sexual peak just after reaching an orgasm. She experiences a strong rush of pleasure in her entire body, she’s soaking wet, her vagina is pulsating, she’s very sexually excited, and above all, she’s more than willing to return the favor.
Ask her to give you a blowjob just after she’s had an orgasm or two, or three =) (but make sure she’s had a few minutes to calm herself down first). Blow her mind with intense orgasms and she will be more likely to give you blowjobs.
But, if your girl is more of a selfish lover, bring her close to orgasm rather than actually giving her one. Then, try giving each other oral sex through the 69 position, so that you can orgasm together.
That way, she will always associate giving you pleasure with having her own orgasm, which will make her want to give you blowjobs more often. See how that works =)
Refine Her Techniques
Some women are just naturally good at giving blowjobs, and some just need a little instruction. If your woman is one of those who aren’t so good at it, she probably knows it, and will be less likely to suck you off. She might feel silly going down there or embarrassed that she doesn’t know what to do.
The only way to fix this problem is by teaching her. Show her the different techniques you really like and the tips that get you rock hard.
Give her special, step-by-step instructions about how to use her tongue, the roof of her mouth, and how to use her hands at the same time. Make her eager to learn how to please you. This will get her to feel more comfortable and “cocksure” about what she’s doing.
Guiding your woman to give you exactly what you want will also get you the best blowjobs of your life.
Here are a few tips you can share with your girl:
Tell her to start off slow, kissing and grazing the shaft of your dick with her lips, tongue and the heat of her breath. Tell her to look you directly in the eye to make things really hot and exciting.
Ask her to pay special attention to the tip of your penis since it is the most sensitive. Let her use the tip of her tongue to make circular motions around the head while she is using one hand to firmly move up and down the shaft.
Blowjobs should be wet and sloppy! Have her spit on the shaft and pull away slowly so that you can see it dripping from her lips as she moves them away from your cock.
If you really want to heat things up for your girl, try putting a vibrator between her legs while she’s going down on you. Try standing and have your girl position herself on her knees. Fold a pillow and place it under them so that she doesn’t have to lean down too low, and so that her pussy is rubbing against it.
Then, let her place the vibrator between her legs and push herself into it while she is sucking you off. Now, she’s getting clit stimulation at the same time and won’t feel so left out.
Thank Her
Saying thank you to your girl after she gives you a blowjob sounds really silly right? Well, that’s because it is. If you literally say thank you after she makes you come…you’ll probably make your girl feel like a $5 hooker.
When I tell you to thank her, I don’t mean to actually say, “Thank you.” Show her you are thankful by complementing her techniques and everything you loved about it.
Make her feel like she’s on top of the world after making you come. Reward her with more orgasms, more pleasure, plenty of hugs and passionate kisses. Make her feel like your personal blowjob queen!
If you are more loving towards her afterwards and are showing her a little more physical affection, she will constantly be trying to find new ways to get better at giving you blowjobs.
Think About it Like This: You’re not too fond of your job, but you are working hard and are willing to learn. You notice the harder you work, the more recognition you get, which only makes you want to work even harder.
Then, you get a promotion. All the positive feedback makes you love your job more than ever and you keep looking for new ways to impress your boss and be the best you can be.
Well…that’s how it works with your woman. Show your appreciation for the deed, make her feel like she sucks dick better than any other girl, tell her how sexy it is to watch her, and compliment on her techniques.
Get her off by getting you off. Once you do all these things, she is going to crave you and your cock ALL the time.
XOXO