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Saturday, April 28, 2012

How to Overcome Fear and Make Decisions


"Nothing matters so much that we should throw ourselves into a state of panic about it. No happening is so important that we should let ourselves be exiled from inner peace and mental calm for its sake." ~ Paul Brunton
If there's one thing in life that we are all scared of... its fear.  Yet is fear really something we need to run away from like a coward and avoid?  What would happen if we opened up, embraced fear and gave fear a big cozy hug!  It probably needs one by now, don't you think?  The moment you turn inside and embrace whatever you're afraid of, something magical happens...  You find the willingness to make anything happen!  When you can move into fear, through fear, and out the other side, then become fearless.  Fear becomes as frightening as a shadow, an imaginary obstacle blocking the light of your own radiant being.
The truth is that all fear is illusory.  F.E.A.R. = False Evidence Appearing Real.  Your fears in life are simply negative thought about your future wrapped up with contracted body sensations.  Fear is a mental fabrication created by emotional needs that haven't been met.  When you know yourself as the source of love itself, then fear doesn't stand a chance in your life.  When fear rises it becomes something you get to deal with.  I say "get to" because you see these feelings as opportunities to push you deeper inside, into the source of love.  Fear forces you to feel what's at the innermost core of your being.  This is the only place in the Universe where you'll find true everlasting love, peace, safety, security and the highest spiritual growth you could possibly ask for.  Everywhere else you look you'll find life to be quite illusory and always changing on you.  
  It's good to know that fear is the hidden key to one of the greatest mysteries of life.  This is the mystery of mastering your existence.  Once you've discovered how to overcome fear, you know what real trust and faith is.  This deeper level of trust is what gives you complete mastery over your life.  Embracing fear requires that you step into your power and rediscover that deeper connection to the source of trust, love and sweet gratitude you have inside.  Letting in the fear is the one thing we all need to push us deeper inside, past our comfort zones, so we uncover the spiritual being living within us.  It's exactly what we need to transcend the limiting human condition we are all facing.
Once you start embracing fear you'll know how to make decisions.  Making the right decision in life takes being willing to make the wrong decision.  It requires that you are truly fearless and willing to be wrong about anything, so that life becomes a massive cosmic learning adventure!  If you want to be confident about every decision you make, simply step back and see your life from the grand scope of things.  On a soul level, there truly is no such thing as a "wrong" decision.  It just might take you a little bit longer to reach your final destination if you choose left instead of right. When you remember that you're an eternal being on an infinite journey through life, it doesn't matter.  You won't break a sweat on the small stuff because you'll realize it's all small stuff.  When all decisions come from this fearless place that knows you're on an infinite journey, you will ultimately initiate choices that only result in playful positive enjoyable outcomes. 
To begin your own personal fear conquering adventure you first need to practice knowing that you are separate from the voice of fear.  That frightful scary voice that goes off in your head is not you, you are the awareness who is aware of that voice.  You are the listener who is listening, the watcher watching.  If that voice causes a feeling of panic, terror or anxiety in you, its because you're buying into the dramatic story of this imaginary voice.  You are allowing it to feed you a frightful experience.  As you come to get to know and listen for this special voice, you'll see it is separate from you.  Then, you can start knowing yourself as the soul or awareness who is untouched by it.  The more you realize that you are this pure awareness, that is watching and listening from a far to the voice of fear, the easier it becomes to not get so involved in its drama.  You then discover the power to make a clear decision about what you want to create in your future and have just taken your first step to overcoming fear.
The next step is to get into the habit of taking one long deep breath into your body anytime you feel fear.  Hold this deep breath as long as you can and allow all the scary thoughts in your mind and fearful body sensations to burn through you.  Give yourself permission for any fearful sensations to enter your body completely.  This allowing experience becomes like a great fire that cleanses your fear channels, and awakens your ego from its slumber.   Let fear serve its purpose in keeping you from falling asleep at the wheel of your life!  Allow your heart to pound, your blood rise to a boil, and your gut get wrenched because your mind believes something horrible is going to happen. The more you can allow fear to come in, the more alive you'll feel and the faster fear leaves you. After the fire has burned through you a great aliveness takes over.  This is where tremendous clarity occurs and becomes an avenue where big life decisions can become effortless, fun and easy.
Anytime you allow fear to take over your entire body, watch what games your mind tends to play.  It may try doing back flips to avoid feeling what you're really afraid will happen.  Get to know yourself intimately, that is another divine purpose of fear.  Watch the mind very closely and notice if there's one particular scene or movie frame from its magnificent horror story that it clings to more than the others.  Then take this movie clip out and view the entire scene from beginning to end.  Watch it with wonder and let a simple soft pure awareness penetrate through it.  Notice the bodily sensations that arise in every segment of your scary scene.  You can allow room for excitement to enter by knowing yourself to be an eternal being who has watched millions of these types of movies.  After you've played the scene through and felt the core of your fear has completely moved through your body, release the breath and let it all go. You may need several deep breaths to do this exercise depending on the size of your fear.  After the fire of fear has cleansed you, you'll find its easy to see this imaginary illusion with a positive productive perspective. 
"Feel the fear and jump, dive, leap into it with wild abandon."  ~Shayna Zweben
The final step on this terrifying journey is befriending the voice of fear.  After the fire has left, approach your fear as if it was an old friend who was trying to teach you something very important about yourself or your life.  Come to know and understand this voice of fear is the path to freedom itself.  Any experience which causes you to feel contracted, time bound, hurried, rushed or unable to relax means you have something to learn about true freedom.  Once you truly know yourself as a spiritual being, these experiences won't touch you.  As you get to know yourself, understand your habitual fear patterns and negative ideas your inner gremlin's addicted to, then you can approach them with a very conscious loving embrace.  You can have compassion upon yourself and take that one baby step towards embracing your fear.  That's really all you need, one baby step towards your fear instead of away from it.  Do this and you've just discovered you have nothing to fear.  In a single moment you can find freedom by merging with fear.  With just one baby step you can transform your inner world into a state of harmony and peace with what is.
To truly understand something is to find peace with it.  When you know and understand that fear is necessary to know love, you will start moving towards embracing it.  You simply cannot know what real love is unless you have known great fear.  Fear is the polar opposite of love, and love is what propels you to move beyond your fear.  We live in a Universe that is filled with polarities, so without fear, love could not even exist.   We need fear to know love and we know love through embracing fear.  Once you embrace all your deepest and darkest fears, only then does peace prevail.  Through this deep complete surrender can you know that who and what you truly are is fearless and cannot die.  Once your heart has accepted the fact that love and fear come together as one package deal, you'll find tremendous peace as you flow in and out of them both.  This peace is all you need to make your life decisions based in love and not from any fear. 
I invite you now to do a little work on yourself and stop and think about what you're truly afraid of in your life right now.  Just pick the worst thing you can think of and get it over with.  Notice how this fear shows up in your body.  Now, dig a little deeper and see exactly what is causing you to be afraid.  Why are you afraid of this one particular thing and not something else?  Look at how and when this fear shows up in your life.  When you stop to look at the roots of your fear, you'll start to unravel the pattern.  You'll see how it has been with you weaving in and out of your entire life!  Yes, fear is a gift from the Universe, a great teacher, and once you stop running from it you'll start learning how to master it. 
All fear is excitement in disguise.  Once you reprogram your brain to flip the negative thinking into positive thinking, the possibilities are endless!  Fear is the most awesome awakening force in our lives, and is that one force that is teaching you how to be unstoppable and fearless.  If you'd like to reprogram your brain with fearless thinking, I've created a powerful mind altering meditation that will dramatically help you to eliminate fear.  I'll be your personal guide into a deep personal state of peace and bliss. Just listening to this guided meditation one time will help you experience a deep peaceful feeling in your body that will help you to easily move through any fearful challenges you're facing.  This enlightening experience will awaken that "sleeping" being and ignite the fearless loving master in your life!
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Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Awesome Threesome Sex


After five year since my last encounter with sukhmani I was still hungry for more.(Refer: Awsome sex with lavanya sukhmani), I again got the opportunity to go back to my village. This time I have my company car with me as I was promoted to Assistant HR Manager. I was in ten day trip to my village. I went to the village market and there I found sukhmani. She had not changed even a bit. She did not notice me first. I waited for her to finish with her shopping and come out of the market. When she came out I went straight to her. “Sukhu, do you remember me?” She stared at me for some time and “sorry but am not able to recognize you”. I said to her “I think you need more fucking then only you will remember me sukhu”. Listening to this her eyes widened now suddenly recognizing me and started blushing. “Oh, of course I recognize you. How are you? It’s been quite a long time.” “Five years exactly” I replied. She looked into my eyes and smiled. “Sukhu, are you going home now?” I asked her. “Yes”she said. “Ok then come in my car. I am going that side too. I will drop you at your home”. “you have bought car?”. “yes a year back”. She just followed me to the car and sat beside me as I drove to her place. I had put on the AC. After driving certain miles I suddenly changed the road and when we were nearly 10 KM outside the village and luckily for me the road was good and very rarely vehicles passed that way with very few busses through that route. “Sukhu, I always think about you”. “Really you still think about me?”. I laughed and replied “every time and everywhere because I love you. Sukhu, have you shaved your pussy after that?”. “Why should I? Who is bothered about my old pussy anymore? “I do sukhu I specially do”. Saying this I stopped the car to road side and there was no sign of any living beings around. She was staring into my eyes. I then unhooked the buttons of my pants and pulled down its zip. Her eyes widened on seeing what I was doing. I smile at her and then pulled down the pants along with the underwear till my knee. “Touch it sukhu, feel it”. She then suddenly got hold on my penis; I almost jumped in the seat. She slowly guided my foreskin back and she then bend down and gave a long kiss to the tip. Now she sat back and asked “do you have sex regularly?”. “No because I am for you”. By this time I had a rock-hard erection and my shaft had become a perfect flag post. She looked at it giggled. “You have already tore apart me with your thing last time”. I adjusted in the seat and turned to her side. I grabbed her head from behind and pulled her towards my thrusting penis. “Sukhu please take it”. She pulled down the foreskin and put the manhood into her mouth, first sucking it slowly and then increasing the speed. This 50 year old woman was driving me wild. I squeezed her boobs and bumps through her cloths. After about 15 minutes I felt the orgasm developing in me and started moaning. As I shot loads of juices into her mouth, she made no efforts to pull back and just kept swallowing the whole cum pumping out of me. She then looked at me asked “, are you happy now?”.

I didn`t say a word. She then put the tip of my shaft back in her mouth and squeezed it with her hands and sucked in the little bit of cum. She sucked me clean. Then I put back my pants and continued driving. “Sukhu I want to fuck you”. “Why?  Dou you find interesting in fucking me?”. “I don’t know all those things but I really want to fuck you”. “Hmm munna do one thing you come to my house there alone tomorrow at 10:30. Ok?”. I was jubilant to hear those words. As I was nearing her house, I again stopped by the side. “Sukhu, can you show me your pussy now?”. “Oh you will have it tomorrow, then why to hurry?” “Please I just want to see it”. She looked around and then lifted her sari along with the petticoat above the waist. Oh she seemed to have more hair on the pussy now than the last time. I then parted her legs and started exploring her love hole. I inserted the middle finger into her and she started moaning. I then turned her to my side and bend down putting my tongue to her love nest. I licked her pussy and sucked in the salty love juice oozing out of her. After some 5 minutes she pushed me back. “now you can do the rest tomorrow. Ok?”. I nodded and then dropped her home. The next day I was at her doorstep sharp at 10:30. She led me inside the house. She had confessed to me, when we were alone in her house, she all of a sudden felt a lust for me when she noticed I was interested in her and she is not a bad character or sex maniac. She never had any feelings for anybody before. It was only a spur of the moment action and she could not explain how she agreed to do with me. But I told her that she was perfect in getting out of my sexual desires and fantasies and I never felt the need to explore any other women. She told after I left she felt it was so wrong in doing so and had regretted a lot and had felt guilty for long thinking in this five years but I told I only enjoyed it and it only helped me and please do not have any guilty feelings. Telling this I just took her in my arms and kissed her so passionately which she never expected and I told to remove all of her guilty feelings have sex once again. She resisted it initially but I persuaded her to have a passionate sex with her after closing the doors and windows. It was afternoon, she was a little hesitant anyone will drop in by chance. But I was so passionate for her, we both became fully naked and had sex so passionately. I made her come on my top and she climaxed first and then I gave my penis in her mouth for oral sex and I climaxed ejaculating in her mouth by gyrating my hips violently and squeezing her breast so hard. I spend next 4 hours with her and I fucked her 5 times (one in her ass) in those 4 hours. I then told her I am here for the next eight days only I desire to have threesome sex (with 2 women’s), and for that I needed her other sex partners. Then I tell that I would like to see her been licked by a female. She started to laugh and but I made her folded in my arms. Started to lick her neck and then her lips. All of a sudden she pulled back and asked whether I will be able to share her with other women. I told her let’s try, if not liked we will drop it. So who will be our 3rd partner? I told her that it would be of her choice. I said that there are no women in her idea with whom she can get comfortable. I asked whether she can call some women of her type. She laughed and said where would I get her. I told her that “Please sukhu try finding any women of your like as for you it will be easy to get any women and also once both of you will get to know each other then you can have fun time with her in absence of me… Please try finding one specially of your type. I am also willing to spend some money on her too”. She told me she will try finding one and meet her tomorrow morning. Next day I went to sukhu`s home and from there we reached to the nearby temple. On the way sukhu told me “I want our love to continue, promise me you will not change once you get this women” I replied “I assured that I going to have sex with both women just for once and you will always be my love sukhu”. On reaching temple after the religious formality sukhu told me to wait there and she herself went and standing near the compound wall talking to another women. After sometimes I saw both of them coming towards me and there sukhu introduced me to Nupur. Nupur is sukhmani`s friend was at the same age as sukhmani, gracefully matured, admirable, brown, beautiful,  Nupur was a short, plump, wide, hefty woman, a brown beauty with fat round arms, large soft breasts, thick layered fat midriff, very wide enormously large bottom, lustrous hair that reaches just beyond her arse and also I noticed her thickly set thighs and good size of breast visible from white blouse.. I knew that her desire for me was prompted by the stories and experiences of fucking sukhmani narrated to her. Sukhmani confessed our secret love affair to her close friend Nupur. Sukhmani told me that she is ready for it but in return I have to help nupur financially as she need money immediately. To which I agreed to help her. As we were busy discussing  when we noticed the temple priest pointing at sukhmani to come to him. I told sukhmani that I would like to have private chat with nupur to which sukhmani affirmed it positively. I asked nupur to go to some place lonely but not so far from the temple and nupur agreed.  I took her into the wide bush of small tress behind the temple compound. Nobody was in the road and the bush was a safe place.  I told me “Let’s stand here, if any one come searching for you alert me. And with that I sat down to the floor between her feet. As I sat down I did something unexpected. I raised her saree along with petticoat and draped it over my head and said “see you will enjoy now”. She was surprised but happy too that it was a bit dark. Slowly I could make out the shape of her legs and thighs. She seemed hairy but smooth. And from up close I could make out some other smells over the talcum powder. I touched her thighs, it was smooth to feel. My face was very close to the place where her thighs met. She was not wearing any underwear.
                                                          
There seemed to be a growth of something dark, it looked like hair. I couldn’t resist touching it – yes, it was hair! I was surprised and whispered “Nupur, you are dense forest here!” She whispered back “Yes, you touch it and see” So I touched again, it seemed to be curly but soft. As I felt her there she reached down and brought my face close to the spot. The smell was a strong, musky odour, it was the smell of a woman in heat. I liked the novelty of the smell and sniffed again. Mmmm, it felt nice so I buried my face inside. There seemed to be a moist spot somewhere there which I wanted to explore. I kept my fingers inside and was surprised to find a crack into which my fingers sank. It became wet. I asked her “ Can I taste it?” She said “Yes”. As I was about start licking suddenly someone`s voice came from outside, “where are you? It`s time to go” Shukmani shouted. So we stopped but before leaving I kissed nupur and told her to meet me near the pond house today around 6:30 P.M. so that I can give her some money and don`t tell this to sukhmani to which nupur agreed. So as per the discussion I was waiting when I saw nupur coming towards me. All the time I was looking at her beauty. She noticed my looks and smiled her beautiful smile. She looks sexy and exciting that day.  I said lets go inside and I want to talk to you about something. I now whispered, “Come with me” and took her inside the house. The house was empty. Now I told her I would like to finish the remaining work and with that I moved towards her and hugged her. I put my hand on her back and began caressing. She tried resisting saying not now someone might come here. I assured her nothing will happen and moreover before going for threesome I want to feel her personally. She again tried stopping me saying she has only two hours to return to her home so stop this and wait for the appropriate time to come. But I was in no mood to stop and replied her it will going to take only two hours so we have two hours to relieve ourselves. It will be safe for two hours. And with that I took nupur`s hand and made her sit beside me on ground and hugged her. My hand was moving over her bra strap on her back. I continued moving my fingers on her bra strap and with some difficulty I unhookedbra over her blouse itself.

She looked in my eyes and kept quiet. We looked in each other eyes for some time then I moved my hand across her back and pulled her to me. I pushed my hand between her arms and body and my finger touched side of her breast. With free hand I held her chin and kissed her deeply. I pulled her further and she fell on my chest. My palm was on her breast. I again kissed her. This time I squeezed her lips. I felt sensation in her body. Her hand moved on my chest. I took her breast fully in my hand and squeezed it twice .I kissed her again .We chewed each other’s lips and I pushed my lips inside her mouth. While kissing I kept on pressing her breast. After some time she pushed my head away. We parted but I let my hand cupped her one breast. She was breathing heavily. This time we kissed for much longer period and while kissing I unbuttoned her blouse and cupped her breast over bra. I looked at her breast. She had white bra but as hook got opened bra cups have fallen down and boobs were almost bare. “Dear you have a lovely breast let me love it.” I pulled her bra and blouse away. She really has a 34” size very well shaped round breast. I cupped and licked the nipples. Her fingers were playing with my hair. After enjoying her breast for first time I said “ yours item is such a lovely , it is difficult to control.” I was eager to fuck her fast so I straight way came to point. I took one of her hand and placed it on my dick over the pant. She wanted to pull away her hand but I held it firmly over my tight dick. Finally I found her encircling dick with her fingers. She was topless. I took her in right arm and with left arm I caressed her thighs. I pushed her saree up. She kept quiet but I felt pressure of her fingers on my dick. I was fondling with one breast and with left hand I pushed skirt further up. Now her petticoat has visible. She smiled and giggled. I made her stand between my thighs facing me. She has a good height. I pulled down petticoat. She tried to cover her cunt but with my thighs I parted her thighs wide and made her hold me by her hands. I pulled down my pant and remove underwear. I pulled her holding her waist and dick knocked at her cunt. I ran my fingers over her cunt petals and inserted one and then two fingers inside. Hers was the cutest cunt. I wanted to suck it. Inside the house I saw a table and so I lifted her up on the table and began licking and sucking her pussy. I chewed clit and cunt petals. She was moaning and shaking. I held her firmly and rubbed my mouth on her pussy. While sucking again I fucked nupur with my fingers. She was shaking her hips fast. I pushed her down on ground. I let her one leg fall on ground. I pushed her other leg up and gave a hard push. Nupur cried and I started kissing her and I gave three more push. My entire dick went deep in tight cunt. We remained still for few minutes. I fucked her and fucked till she became still and I filled her pussy. She caressed my back and kissed me. We parted for some time. Few minutes later I spread her legs wider and her pussy became opened. I then began to titillate her clitoris and was rubbing her clitoris and orifice of the pussy hole gently and she was enjoying because she was shutting her eyes. After rubbing about 2 minutes I noticed that suddenly a flow of pre-cum juices oozed for once and I rubbed it at her pussy hole to make it slick. Seeing this my erected hard penis was stiffing upward. I knelt between her legs and bended my penis downward and set at the entry of her pussy hole which is slicked already though I applied more pre-cum from my penis by pressing its head. Then I applied pressure to insert my penis into the nupur’s pussy hole. My penis head popped into the pussy hole easily and then I thrust my entire penis into her pussy hole. Her pussy hole was loosened and my penis was moving through it easily without any difficulty. I kept continuing my penis’s movement forward and backward. I was continuing to fuck her. I then grabbed her pubic muscle and pulled upward and then the walls of the pussy hole became squeezed and gave tightness at my penis. I think she also began to response then and she was swung her waist slightly. I was fucking her with the full strength and I had the only destination to eject, her loosened pussy couldn’t give me sufficient friction, otherwise she has no breast to squeeze and I have no way to suck anything so ejecting was very difficult. I then lifted her both legs together and jointly hugged those, at this way her cunt became some squeezed and I again thrust my penis into her loose cunt and began to fuck hard, my thighs were hitting her bum and produced some sound, I became careful about that or someone may hear it from the road. Once I thought about fuck her asshole but I saw her asshole was very ugly to see, so I began to fuck her with my full strength.

I continued my fucking her. After about 10 minutes she slightly responded and began to moan. Then I kept her legs aside on the ground and laid her on her flank and began to fuck by pressing from her bum, it made slightly tightness inside the pussy hole. She also responded slightly and about after 5 minutes more I felt slight spasm inside her pussy and she pressed my waist with her weak legs and made a sound aaaaaahhhhhhh. Then I saw that some thick sticky juice was oozing through her pussy hole. Soon she ejected and her pussy hole became very juicy. So I again laid her on her back and spread her legs wider and began to rub my penis with her opened pussy. In that way I was rubbing my penis head with her pussy and clitoris and handled like masturbate. At last I came to my ejection and ejected my load on the ground. After that I again took the woman to her place and kept her there. A man was coming alongside the road, he asked me about what happened. After few minutes I heard her whispering “Give me Your tongue." She spread her thunderous trunks of thighs. I kneeled down, placed myself between her thighs, and kissed her wet juicy cunt lips. Her cunt lips tick and juicy, her clitoris was pink stiff and shining. "Lick my cunt” she said and I licked. "Rub your tongue there" she guided me on to her clit. I did, caressing and massaging my tongue on her pink hard erect engorged clit "Put your tongue into my cunt" I inserted my tongue into her cunt.
"Now fuck me with your tongue." Put your mouth at my cunt and suck and slurp, like that oh, you are learning fast my dear son. Do it like that. Yes yes good." Wow now it was amazing to see her taking interest through guiding me. I could remember the sensations of her cunt muscles contracting and expanding against my mouth. Her whole body was shivering She put her hand on my head and pressed hard against her quivering cunt. She came and came, her body pulsating with orgasmic ecstasy again. She thanked me saying” It's been a long time I experienced such beautiful heavenly orgasm and pleasure”. We slept naked in each other's arms. We remain nude there for some time. Few minutes later she raised and picked her clothes to wear. She was about to wear her cloths when I stopped her we were nude still. She told “It is time for me to go now what you want?”. I again sat down across her feet on the floor, and I kneeled between her thunderous thighs and started licking her cunt, sucking, lapping slurping. I then stood up and asked nupur to bend. She bent, her hands holding the wall. I positioned myself at her back, Her legs spread wide, her ass up, I placed my rod at her cunt and then entered her cunt slowly steadily, like a knife Piercing a slab soft butter, opening her cunt muscles torching her bottom. I started fucking slowly rhythmically taking out my cock from her cunt up to knob and sending back in.. Gradually increasing the speed like a railway engine piston each time I forced my cock sound thup thup thup thup thup Fucking fucking with controlled movements in and out in and out in-out In out, I took hold of her long single plait; with one hand and with other hand holding on her midriff – fucking her – I was riding her.  After sometime we both orgasm her pussy was flowing with hot juices which I again drank and nupur sucked my cock. Then we cleaned got ourselves dressed. I gave her Rs. 5000 and told her to make herself ready for threesome sex with me and sukhmani and also told her not do let sukhmsni know about today`s incident. She assured me that she will keep this as secret between her and me. And then we kissed each other passionately and left.

Next day I went to sukhmani`s house and finding her alone I said" Sukhmani I want to drink your honey”. And with that I kneeled down untied her petticoat's knot, removed her petticoat, as she spread her thighs wide. I could see her juice drenched cunt, engorged hardened stiff clitoris, her cunt juice oozing out onto her thighs. I licked, lapped her cunt juice, slurped up juice pressing my lips against her cunt slurping up, my hands pressing and squeezing her ass cheeks, like one squeezes and slurps up ripe mango fruit. The more I slurp, the more cunt juice oozing out of her cunt like a never ending natural well. It was like, all of her stored kama and fat melting and oozing out of her cunt, stored for so many years and waiting for the right moment. I sucked and sucked. She grabbed me up by hair, and said " I can't wait, don't torture me, I want you in me". I got up; she lifted one of her thigh as I managed to enter her, my engorged, stiff, hard, long, thick, virile cock into her juice drenched pussy. I was holding her, encircling my hands around her, and then as I put my hands cupping her arse cheeks, she raised herself, her both legs encircling my waist, my hands under her arse, literally carrying her 75kg body weight on my hands so that she could manipulate her fucking movements. Sukhmani tried to move her ass forward and backward but it was a difficult position to fuck. I disentangled myself and asked her to bend. She obeyed my orders, and bent placing her hands on the cement bench, her arse high up, legs wide spread, her juice drenched cunt wide, legs spread as wide as possible. I entered her cunt slowly, filling her cunt completely to the base, and the started fucking rhythmically, holding on to her ass cheeks, taking out my cock to the knob and sending back into her cunt fully touching the bottom of her cunt. Sukhmani hair spread all over her back and touching the floor, It was an exciting view; I increased the speed, gradually, fucking her in doggy style. Sukhmani was reaching her orgasm; I could feel her cunt muscles. As she said, "fuck me, fuck me harder, fuck me faster, fuck me, You fuck me you, fuck me hard more harder and harder faster and faster, fuck me, fuck me my lover I could feel her cunt muscles contract and expand, her whole body shivering, her cunt muscles gripping my cock, and then loosening, in frenzied motion, as if is my cock was rubber horn one squeezes on yesteryear automobiles, and she came, orgasm, a long drawn multiple orgasm, slowly increasing and reaching it's peak staying at it's peak for a long time and the intensity decreasing, slowly, It was at that moment I reached my climax as she gripped my cock with her cunt muscles hard and squeezing, I came, erupted like a volcano, hot lava pouring out into her cunt, we came in unison, together, my hot sperm filling her cunt, loads and loads filling her cunt. After some time she said “Your cock very beautiful and magnificent". And with that she took my cock into her mouth and started licking. Then I said “Let’s go to your bedroom”.  She walked naked along with me to the bedroom.  I asked her to lie on the bed, spread her thighs, widen her cunt hole and started licking her cunt; inserted my tongue into her cunt, put my lips against her cunt lips and slurped cunt juice mixed with honey, licked her ass cheeks and she got aroused beyond her control. She was whispering “Oh, you are killing me I can’t wait, Give it to me, fill me, fill my cunt,” . I positioned myself between her thunderous thighs, entered her cunt, lifted and placed her legs on both sides of my shoulders, and started fucking, till she climaxed again, her typical long drawn orgasm. 

After few minutes I asked her to come on to top and ride me, and she fucked, riding me, her huge breasts swinging on my face, she fucked me as I sucked her breasts while fingering her ass hole. My cock in her cunt my finger in her ass-double fucking. She came violently, got exhausted so much she couldn’t get up even to wash. She smuggled up in my arms and we slept naked in each other’s arms for an hour. We lay in each other’s arms enjoying the aftermath. We went to the bathroom washed each other, and fucked again inside the bathroom too. We didn't move, my cock still in her cunt, till our orgasmic spasms subsided gradually, and then I took my cock out of sukhmani’s cunt, she hugged me and said, " thank You, it was the best experience I am having with you. Are you happy and satisfied". I said, Yes,sukhmani I am very happy, You are my only dream". We dressed up and before parting sukhmani said that lets finish this threesome sex day after tomorrow afternoon around 01:30 am , I will be bringing nupur along with me to the roadside near the bus stand and from there we will go to the nearby deserted government school which is not too far from this village and there all three of us can have sex without anyone knowing about this. Accordingly next day at afternoon I was waiting for them in the roadside. Both of them came and joined me and we went to the place as desired by sukhmani. Sukhmani guided me and I drove to her place. It was an deserted government school building. It was good that no one was really. The atmosphere was quite for us to have fun with each other.  It was big campus with an amazing boarding and a huge school building. Moments later standing in the verandah at the entrance of the building, sukhmani turned facing the door – there was a opening grill above 4 feet height but below that was solid wooden planking. We entered the room and found neat curtains. I was glad to be in such lonely and quite place with two mature women for my act. I had also brought bedroll along with me so once we entered the room we closed the room from inside and took the bedroll and spread the sheet on the ground and laid the old woman on the sack. Lucky we found some bench and chairs inside the room so then I told "Yes. Do you mind? Shall we start?”. Sukhmani replied "Why not". Soon we started taking our clothes off.  While nupur too removed her saree and lay on the floor to sleep. She was only with blouse and petticoat. I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. I understand that both wanted themselves to be exposed before me.  Sukhmani reveal she was naked underneath. I took my hands and placed them inside her blouse. I couldn’t resist myself and so I quickly removed her blouse. She wasn’t wearing any bra so I saw her big boobs and began to squeeze that. She stood up and took her petticoat off and  lie on the table and spread her legs. Seeing this cock sprung to attention. I slipped my dick into sukhmani and started fucking her. While nupur sat down and stared rubbing her clit with one hand and fingering herself with the other one. After a few minutes nupur came over and started sucking sukhmani`s tits. Sukhmani responded by sticking 3 fingers into nupur`s cunt. This was enough for me, as I pulled out and spunked over her pussy. Nupur saw this and started licking it clean. I saw sukhmani face start to grimace and she pushed her fingers in harder. I saw both their bodies tense as they reached orgasm. "That was the most erotic thing was seeing." I said to them.  I said to them "I have never had a woman lick me before, it was quite an experience." She put her fingers to her mouth and tasted them. "Mmmm... Is that what I taste like.”? "Yes you do, and I'd like to do it again." "yes, surely." sukhmani said to nupur. I feel horny and want to taste their pussies.”

“Nupur, would you mind if I licked your pussy?” sukhmani said.  Nupur replied “Of course not.” And with that nupur hitched her petticoat up and took off and sat on a chair and spread her legs. Sukhmani knelt in front of her and started to lick her clitoris. I unzipped my trousers and released my cock. I walked over to nupur and put it in her mouth. She sucked my dick until she started to come. “Oh yes, keep going, I’m coming!” sukhmani licked faster until nupur screamed in ecstasy. “You taste so nice, lick me please.” Then sukhmani stood up and swapped places with Nupur. Nupur licked sukhmani while I lifted up her petticoat and slipped my cock into her pussy. After a few pushes I pulled out and pressed my cock against her anus, slowly pushing in, feeling her tighten on my cock. I fucked her ass while I felt her tits before I felt my balls tense as I pumped semen into her ass. This made nupur come again. Sukhmani`s breathing got heavier as she approached her orgasm. “Mmmm, ohhhh, keep going, that’s it, Ahhhh!” Her face contorted as her orgasm hit… After sometime I stopped and told both of them to continue their act. Slowly they face each other and started to stare in each other’s eyes.  Sukhmani hold nupur`s hands and took her to the ground. Made nupur lie on the bed and laid next to her. As time passed sukhmani was in full control of the moment. Slowly they started to enjoy each other. I noted that both of them was seriously making love with each other. They both were playing with each other’s body as needed. Sukhmani started to finger my nupur.  Seeing this I was ready again in full mood, my cock was saluting in full. Slowly I reached near my nupurs pussy and I bend and licked her. She all of a sudden lifted her head in surprise and saw me. I went next to her and kissed and said that I love her a lot. She pulled me by my neck and started to make full noise. I slowly lowered myself and again licked my nupurs pussy. As sukhmani was fingering she placed her fingers in my mouth. I was sucking finger and pussy vice versa. This went on for around 10 minutes. Then I placed myself next to nupur. She was in centre. Both sukhmani and I were making love to nupur in all position. As time passed I started to concentrate more on lips and boobs. Sukhmani slowly lowered her and started to chew my nupur`s pussy. Nupur too was getting mad over sukhmani`s action. Sukhmani started to finger herself while chewing my nupur’s pussy. So my nupur pulled her in such a position that they were in 69 position. The room was filled with full of ecstasy. Loud noise was hitting the walls. Seeing them in 69 I slowly lowered myself and started to lick the navel of my nupur.

Suddenly my nupur pulled me by my hair and spread sukhmani’s legs in such position that we both were between her legs. She told me to lick sukhmani’s pussy. I just stared her and said is that fine for you. She said that at present she wants me to lick sukhmani as deep as possible. I lowered myself in such a position that I had full access to sukhmani’s pussy. Once in position I spread her pussy as much as possible as then inserted my tongue. Mmmm tasty she was. I gripped her pussy in my mouth and chewed like a chocolate. Slowly started to move my hands on her ass hole. She was leaking from all sides, so didn’t need any liquid to make her ass ready for fingering. As time went sukhmani shifted her hand job on my cock to mouth job. She was easily taking the cock in her mouth in full while sucking she was playing with my balls.  Seeing us in 69 my nupur got up and went to sukhmani and started to lick my cock with her. Time by time they were sucking and chewing me. Then my nupur spread my ass and did the best part she and me always liked, licking ass hole. Nupur  now wanted to get fucked. So we all changed position and both the women wear lying next to each other. I could decide to fuck nupurfirst. Slowly I placed my cock on her pussy and pushed in. She was hot. Mmmmmm I loved it. Slowly we got into the rhythm. While fucking I wanted to suck my nupur`s pussy. So I told my sukhmani to sit on nupur’s face, and she did the same. Before my sukhmani could settle down on nupur’s face, nupur started to lick her ass.

The room was full of noise. I nearly humped nupur for 20 minutes. Her pussy was too much sticky. As I pulled out my cock from nupurs’s pussy, she forced my fingers and told to finger fuck her. I did the same. Meanwhile sukhmani was doing something new. The time I was humping sukhmani she started to spit saliva on nupur’s face and licked her. We were getting more and uglier. At last nupur’s ejaculated once again.  It was now sukhmani time to get fucked so I then told sukhmani to be in 69 positions. I began to lick her pussy and she licked my cock. Suddenly she began to cum so I started to drink that. I fully drank that. I then laid her beside me and placed my cock inside her pussy. I began to give her slow strokes. Gradually I began to increasing the speed and she screamed. She was feeling real pleasure and told me to get my cock deeper. Her hands were really irritating because she wanted to take out my cock from her pussy. But at the same time she was insisting me to fuck her deeper. So I took some ropes and tied her hands and legs with the bed. Now it began easier for me to fuck her as she was completely helpless. I then placed my cock inside her pussy and began fucking. After a minute or so I again cummed inside her pussy. I want her to get horny so I continue fucking.  Afteran hours we were completely sweaty and so she then took me on her arms. I was lying beside her butt sukhmani was screaming in pain. Then again nupur got hot and started sucking and licking my cock flicking her tongue at my scrotum. Sukhmani lying on the ground, her hair spread on the ground, her thighs wide open, I put my tongue at her cunt lips sucked the her juice mixed with honey, slurping sucking licking lapping up.

“Fuck her, nupur, fuck her, she needs it, Give it to her, Fill her and fuck her” sukhmani said standing next to me, and caressing nupur’s big hard nipples, as I entered nupur’s juicy cunt, with all my strength and energy, I was surprised, to feel that nupur’s cunt was already hot. I could feel her cunt opening up as I entered, widening her, I was surprised to find that a fat big woman having such a hot cunt, in spite of the fact that her cunt was wet and juicy. The only plausible reason could be that she has not been fucked for a long time and her cunt has not been regularly serviced.
I fucked and fucked with frenzied rhythmic motion, Nupur didn’t take much time to reach her orgasm, unlike sukhmani’s multiple orgasms, Nupur ‘s orgasm was more intense, reaching its peak, as her cunt muscles gripped my cock tightly for a long time, and released the grip and started crying as she orgasm, crying aloud. It was a new experience for me, a woman crying as her orgasms intensely, her finger scratching my back almost drew blood, making visible red marks. But My cock was still hard and erect, I waited till nupur’s orgasmic spasms subsided, her body relaxed, her cunt muscles relaxed, I looked into her eyes, she actually blushed, pulling me down, and kissing me all over my face, all my weight resting on her, she was shy, the unexplainable, shyness, as she buried her face on my chest, saying “thank you” several times. I withdrew my cock from her cunt, and my sukhmani was ready again. My cock still erect and hard, I entered sukhmani`s cunt, from behind doggy style, as she placed her hands on the bed, and started fucking her. Sukhmani and I came together, after fucking her for a long time. Again nupur sat between my thighs and took my limp cock in mouth and sucked. I pulled sukhmani on my lap and fondled her mercilessly with this double effect cock began tightening and soon it came to form. Sukhmani watched me fucking the nupur and after about 7-8 minutes I pulled cock out of nupur’s bur and pushed in sukhmani’s mouth. To my surprise she did not try to push cock out but held it firmly and sucked like nupur. But nupur was still not satisfied and she wanted more. I pull cock out of girl’s mouth and fucked nupur again till we both climaxed. We then slept for some time. The three of us were still nude. My hands were paining. I just laid next to them and thanked them for their cooperation. Nupur paused for 2 minutes and said only one word “do me one favor”. I said “nupur, darling you have made me very happy tell me what you want.” Nupur said “ please give me the remaining money”. I said her not to worry as I have brought the money with me as she said and listening to this nupur thanked me and she kissed my cock. I kissed and fondle nupur again . I again become hot and I wanted to continue my lust. I got up and sat in between my nupur’s legs and slowly placed my cock in her pussy. Pushed it fully in one force itself. As time went my speed increased. Sukhmani again joined us and helped us to ejaculate. I fucked nupur for around 15 minutes. Very shortly I was to release my sperm. I pulled out my cock and placed in nupur`s  mouth she took the whole load inside her mouth and swallowed fully. We went to sleep I was woken up at 6:30 pm in the evening by sukhmani. Still we were nude and were all up and looking at each other. We smiled at one another. There was sense of accomplishment and completeness. But I had my heart’s content and still waiting for another chance with both women. Later we all got up and cleared all the mess. I handed the remaining money to nupur and took nupur `s mobile number without sukhmani noticing and left the next day returned to my town where I work.

I had one more secret session with nupur too just like I had with sukhmani  but this time without sukhmani  knowing. After three months I called on to nupur to ask for her and sukhmani`s well being.  Our talk lasted for half an hour and through our talk I came to know that nupur is again in need for financial assistance as she used the money which I gave her last time in clearing off her  debts and other miscellaneous expenditure of hers.  I assured nupur that I will arrange some money for her in no time and will personally come to handover the money to her. But she has to keep all this talk secret and should not reveal this to sukhmani. Nupur asked me the reason for doing that but I told her just like that as I want to give sukhmani a surprise. Then I cut the phone telling her to meet me near the temple where I first saw her after ten days. I reached the temple aroun 10 ` o clock in the morning and saw nupur standing there. I was stunned to see her. She was wearing a pink saree with a matched blouse! She had put light make up on. Her hairs were tied in a bun. She had few ornaments on as well. A necklace, small chandelier ear rings and bangles in each hand to go with it. I directly went to her. We both were happy to see each other. Just for formality I asked her about sukhmani to which she replied that she is not in the village right now and has gone to the nearby village for some purpose. I was happy to know that. I told her  that I have brought the money along with me but I also need one more round with her. She was surprised to hear that. But I told her that only one  last round as I am unable to resist my temptation towards her after I had sex with her. I told her “ nupur listen to me and please agree to have sex with me for one last time. It won`t too that long. I just want a quite and lonely two hours with her. Please nupur agree with me this one last time. Please”. She started hesitating saying about what sukhmani will think about it. Just to please nupur I said to her “ forget sukhmani she is nothing as compare to you nupur which I realized when I felt to from inside. Listen nupur I invited sukhmani just to have a bodily feeling with you nupur. I too admit I had sex with sukhmani on many occasion but the heat and the wetness which I felt inside you nupur, well sukhmani is no near that. Please nupur agree with me”. After a good conversation of 30 minutes nupur at last agreed to have sex with but she queried where we can have sex. I told her in the forest behind the temple compound. I said her “ lets don`t waste any more time and lets start”. And with that I took nupur along with me deep inside the forest. After going deep inside the forest we stopped. She was looking deep into my eyes with a smile on her face. After some time, I don’t know what went through my mind. I pulled her closer into a hug and planted my lips on her lips. I think she too was very much into it. She just closed her eyes and responded beautifully. I had my hands running all over her back. With every passing moment our kiss went on to become more and more tight. Same was the case with our hug too. We continued for quite a long time. Her boldness was a complete surprise package for me. I put my hands around her waist and in a couple of moments; she pulled me into a hug and locked her lips with mine. This time it was a bit hornier. She entered her tongue into my mouth and started exploring my mouth.

My cock was already erect and throbbing inside my pant. Her hands which were around my neck at first, have now started running through my hairs. My hands which were running over her back have now grabbed the hold of her butts and were pressing them slowly. I broke the kiss and started kissing all over her face and her neck. My body temperature started rising even in that ac room and my cock started aching in my pant. It was at its fullest. Soon nupur started playing with the buttons of my shirt, opened them one by one and off went my shirt. She kissed me one more time. This time she started with my lips and continued to my neck and further to my chest. Her one hand was caressing the huge bulge formed in my pant. She soon took my belt off, opened the button of my pant and in just a moment my pant was down to my ankles. I stepped out of it. Now I put my hand in her petticoat from the front and pulled out the part of her saree which was tucked in there. With that, her saree came off completely. Her cleavage was prominently visible from the top of her low cut sleeveless blouse. I kissed her neck and started showering kisses on her cleavage. She laughed naughtily and turned around. I grabbed her waist from behind and started playing with her navel. I continued with the kisses and untied the string of her petticoat. She had her eyes closed. I just pulled her petticoat from both the sides and as it loosened I left it. It went down to her ankles. She stepped out of it. Then I moved my hands a bit up and started pressing her boobs. Soon my hands were busy opening the buttons of her blouse. One by one all the four of them were open and I pulled her blouse out. Now she was completely nude. She turned around again and hugged me. Her body was fairly hot as well. I was caressing her bare and smooth back with my hands. The only obstacles were the straps of her bra. I found the clasp and opened it. Suddenly her hands which were running on my back and through my hairs for all this time, went down and pushed my underwear down at one go. My cock sprang out immediately and touched her crotch. She stepped back a bit to take look at it and offered an opportunity for me to pull her bra off. She grabbed the hold of it and started stroking a little. “And you have a great pair!!” I added while having a good look at the most beautiful pair of breasts I have ever seen. They were really very beautiful. She folded her arms around her chest thereby covering the breasts.. I pulled her closer and hugged her tightly to feel her body. I have no words really to describe the warm feeling of her body and the soft touch of her breasts. I slowly moved my hand downwards and inserted one of my fingers into her pussy. She could only say, “Aaaahhh!!” I kept pushing my finger further and kept on moving it around in her pussy. After some time of finger fucking I pulled my finger out and pushed her down on the ground. She just laid there rubbing her pussy. Now it was uncontrollable for me. I opened her legs apart a bit, pushed her hand away and kissed her pussy lips. She let out a moan. I kissed there a few more times, opened her pussy lips and inserted my tongue into it. She moaned loudly and twitched her body like a first timer. I continued with my work on her pussy. Her juices were flowing endlessly. Soon I found one of her boobs and started pressing it. It was a great pleasure to have your mouth on the pussy of a beautiful lady and your hand on her breasts pressing it.

I continued for 5-7 minutes. Her breaths started getting heavier and moans started getting louder. Finally, she let out a loud groan and a jolt ran through her body. She closed her legs so tightly that I almost got suffocated. Yes! She was in orgasm. I drank all of her love juices thirstily. She set me free after few moments. I was very eager to feel the warmth of her pussy with my cock. So I went up towards her face and locked her lips with mine. Now we were in such a position that the tip of my cock was touching lips of her pussy. To my surprise, she grabbed the hold of my cock and guided its head into her pussy. The warmth of her pussy just maddened me. I tried to push a bit further. She was very hot. I gave one hard push and my cock went in completely. “aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh…………….!! Do it slowly darling!!!” She almost shouted with pain. I stayed there kissing her lips for a while till her pain subsided. After some time I started moving my cock in and out of her pussy.

All I could hear from her was..aah….uhh…..ohh….mmmmmm!!! You doing great darling! Just continue. Wow!!. Wow!!!”. I was kissing her face and neck like mad. Soon I turned towards her breasts. First I licked her pink nipple and started biting it. She started shouting in painful pleasure. Her nipples grew harder and darker. I started sucking her left boob and pressing the right one. “Ohhhhhhhh!! Harder abhay!! You are doing fine! Suck it harder!! Uhhhhhhh………mmmmmmmmm!!!” Now our act was in full swing. I was sucking her boobs hard and pounding her pussy with my monster cock. After some time, her moans turned into grunts. They went on getting louder and louder. Meanwhile, pressure is building in my loins as well. I couldn’t stand it and increased my speed. Finally we both came with loud shouts. I shot my entire load of sperms into her pussy. It was the greatest ever; almost filled her pussy completely. I just fell on her exhausted. We stayed in that position for some time gathering our breath. “Thank you!! It was really a great pleasure to have such good session of sex after so many days.” I said after some time. She said nothing in reply. I just locked myself in a wild kiss with her. It went on for around 5 minutes. I just couldn’t keep my hands off her. But then, hunger let its presence felt. But I continued with the kiss. Finally she broke the kiss and said, “Let’s take a break. We’ll have rest for some time.”

She got up from ground. She went into the thick bushes to pee. My cum mixed with her love juices running down her thighs. She came  and stood in front me said, “Now it’s my turn to satisfy you!!” My cock immediately formed a tent in the towel wrapped around my waist by the sight of that nude beauty. She just told me sleep on the ground. I gladly followed her instructions. After that she sat between my legs and started stroking my cock with her hands. She pulled my foreskin back and engulfed it entirely. Now it was my turn to twitch my body and moan loudly with pleasure like a first timer. She was quite good at it. She kissed, sucked, and licked my cock like an expert. It continued for 15 minutes and finally I came with a loud groan. She licked all the cum and cleaned my cock. Though I was through with an orgasm, my cock was not ready to lose its hardness and to add to that, she started stroking my cock. Now my cock was hard like a hot steel rod. Now she stopped stroking and came up. She slowly sat on my cock and my dick went into her wet pussy with ease. I enjoyed that warmth of her pussy again. She adjusted herself neatly and slowly started riding me. But I wasn’t satisfied with that. I was getting all the pleasure for my cock but what I enjoyed the most was her fair and smooth body; especially her boobs. So I continued to be flat on my back for some time. But then I sat up. As I sat up she kissed my lips passionately. I hugged her tightly and showered kisses on her neck. After some time I took her boob in my mouth and started sucking with all my strength. This was a pretty quiet session. After almost 30 minutes full of passionate and wild sex we both entered orgasm together. After that too I didn’t stop sucking her breasts. Finally she pulled my head away and locked in another kiss. This one was quite short compared to others. She said, “Enough for today!! I am feeling very tired! I need a sleep now.” I was a bit disappointed at this but I agreed and both of us slept hugging each other. 

“Get up now. It’s 5 o’clock!” nupur  told me in sweet voice in the afternoon. I opened my eyes and looked towards her she was still in the ground without any clothes. I just pulled her in hug and kissed her deeply. She too replied passionately. We got up from the ground but we were still naked. “Let’s do it again.” I suggested. She agreed immediately. We started caressing each others’ bodies. I occasionally teased her by pinching her stomach, her breasts and her nipples. I slapped her butt too couple of times. She hugged me and bit my nipples couple of times. My cock was now rising. I pulled her in hug and locked lips. My cock touched her pussy. My mind said, “Enough is enough!” And I pushed her up against a tree and pushed my throbbing cock into her pussy. She shouted aloud. But I was in no mood to stop. I just continued banging her pussy in fast pace. After 10 minutes of wild sex I shot my hot cum in her pussy. She too came with a loud groan and said, “Haven’t you finished yet?” “With a woman like you available freely, how can one be satisfied with just three shots?” I said with a smile. “I love you!!” She said naughtily. After that we showed each other with a lot of love we cleaned ourselves and put the clothes on. After moved out from the forest and we had tea in the nearby tea stall. “So, how did you like me? Am I a good sex partner or not?” I asked. “Oh definitely! In fact whenever I would go on sex, I would like you to be my partner.” She said. “And I would want you to be my partner.” I added. We both laughed. “Jokes apart. You really have been an ideal partner. Bold and beautiful! Just as I like.” I said. She blushed at my comments and then I handed her the money and told her not to let sukhmani know about this.  She said “ok” and we left.


Sunday, April 15, 2012

A Goal is a Must. So is Concentration

The indispensable first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: decide what you want:

You must first establish your objectives if you are to accomplish anything in a big way. Goals give you a starting place and a destination. People with goals succeed because they know where they're going. 

Determine what you want.
 Decide on your major objectives, targets, aims, and destination. If you don't know where you're going, how can you expect to get there? 
Goals are dreams that are written down. Plant your dreams, nourish and begin to live them. The most important thing about a goal is having one. 

The first law of success is concentration.
 Bend all of your energies to one point, and go directly to that point, looking neither to the right nor the left. 
Concentration is the magic key that opens the door to accomplishment. Success is the result of well directed energy. 

You can, in time, become what you earnestly desire to be, if you set your face in the direction of the things you want and bring all your powers to bear towards its attainment. 
When your physical and mental resources are focused, your power to solve problems multiplies tremendously. To do two things at once is to do neither. 

Nothing can add more power to your life as much as concentrating all your energies on a limited set of targets. 

The sun's rays do not burn until brought to a focus. 

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Who's Watching You On Facebook?


There can't be many Internet users who haven't heard of Facebook – the social network site, brainchild of U.S. college student Mark Zuckerberg. But worryingly, it's not just our friends who are keeping up with what we're doing online. Debt collectors, potential employers and even lawyers could be finding out much more than you'd want them to. Here we examine the worrying trends on the social network site and consider how you can take steps to avoid being spied on.
Debt Collector WatchIt seems that debt collectors have caught on to how difficult it is to hide on Facebook. According to MSN Money, debt collectors are infiltrating social network pages, contacting you, your friends and family through the site to force you to pay what you owe.
One debt collection agent, Michelle Dunn, confirms that this is a strategy used by debt collection agencies today. "If you look like a really good-looking girl, a lot of people would accept a friendship even if they don't really know the person," she explains. Luckily the The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act, designed to protect consumers against abusive practices by the debt collection industry, does offer you some protection in this area. Although it is not forbidden for collectors to post on your Facebook wall or ask your contacts of your whereabouts, they cannot post about your debt, because that is a serious breach of privacy. Nevertheless, it should be common practice not to accept friend requests from people you don't know, and of course, if you do owe money, in order to avoid being found and potentially harassed on Facebook, you should answer mail or calls or from collection agencies in the first instance. Ignoring the problem will not make it go away.
Job huntingWhen you're applying for a new job, polishing up your resume may not be enough anymore. Rather, you should check what information is out there about you on the web. Facebook profiles are routinely being checked by your future employers. According to a survey carried out by Careerbuilder in 2009, 45% of employers check your social media presence when hiring, and some 35% of employers reported that they have found content on social networking sites that meant they did not hire the candidate. As social media has only grown over the past few years, we can only imagine that this figure would be much higher today.
More than half of the employers questioned said that provocative photos were the biggest factor contributing to a decision not to hire a potential employee, while 44% of employers pinpointed references to drinking and drug use as no-go areas. While this might seem obvious, you can never know what a company might deem "provocative." It seems wise to keep all content absolutely clean, otherwise who knows what job prospects you are thwarting.
Passwords PleaseIn an even more worrying development in Maryland, a man has recently been asked to hand his Facebook login details over to his employee. He was outraged and made a complaint to the American Civil Liberties Union. As a result the updated policy at the Maryland Department of Corrections states that job candidates won't be asked to share their login or password information, but job applicants will be asked to log into Facebook "voluntarily" as an interviewer looks over their shoulders.
Legal SnoopingBeware what you post on the web, because, as a Staten Island woman recently discovered, the legal profession is snooping too. Dorothy McGurk claimed that she couldn't work, rarely left home and didn't socialize because of injuries from a 1996 car accident. The dancer, on disability, had been seeking lifetime alimony of $850 a month from her husband due to this accident. Unfortunately, Facebook revealed that all was not as it seemed, and showed that she was in fact working as a belly dancer. When the Facebook evidence came to light as evidence in court, the alimony was lost.
The Bottom LineUnfortunately, many of us fail to realize that content we post on the Internet is really out there in the public domain. If you do want to continue using Facebook, what can you do to protect yourself from unwanted prying eyes? Be sure you've checked those privacy settings. It is sensible to keep any personal content away from the public eye. Also, be careful what you are making available to your networks. It might seem safe enough to let people who graduated from the same college as you view your profile, but this will include several thousand – if not tens of thousands of – people who you have never met nor know, and who may have ulterior motives when checking out your profile. Keep it clean and professional. Ask yourself: would you want your future employer to read this? If the answer is no, don't post it. There's really nowhere to hide on the world wide web.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

5 things you should never share on Facebook


Almost every user likes to share everything on their Facebook page but certain updates can lead to criticism, embarrassment and even job termination.
So here's a shortlist of what you shouldn't share on the social networking site, reports CBS news.
1.That your job sucks.
If you say this, you could be fired.
2.That you hate your ex.
In the event that you and your boyfriend get back together, or you and that friend you had a falling out with start talking again, you'll look like a total sucker. It's okay to let your emotions govern your thoughts but keep your feelings off your Facebook until you've started to think clearly about said ex.
The important thing to remember about social networks is that although you have the option to delete your comments, sometimes it can be too late. It's immediate and someone might've laid eyes on it before your retraction.
3.That you're going on vacation and then give the dates you're away.
You could be robbed. A recent study found that thieves scan social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter for folks in targeted neighbourhoods before they strike.
4.That you love yourself.
In fact, don't give any indication that you're your biggest fan. Your followers will only think the opposite. It's the biggest barometer of insecurity. Researchers at the University at Buffalo also found that women who base their self-worth on appearance and what people think of them tend to upload pictures very frequently.
5.That you're mean.
Saying mean things about people can only make you undesirable-for potential employers, dates, friends and strangers. 

The Principles of Investing


For over two years now, the market has been range bound, oscillating between the 16,000 to 20,000 points range. Just when it looks like the shackles are lifting comes the turnaround and just as investors start fearing an imminent crash, the index manages a recovery and rebounds.

Consequently, most investors are in a dilemma and quite don’t know how to play out this situation. While some have preferred to wait out the volatility by staying out of the market, others are indulging in chasing returns by dabbling heavily in gold, silver and other commodities. Yet others are gung-ho on FMPs and fixed deposits where in some cases the returns on offer are in the region of 10% - 11% p.a.

However, the truth is there is no reason for investors to get antsy. While desiring a good return is fine, having a rational perspective is crucial. In an effort to earn 11% p.a., one could run the risk of losing 100% in no time! Chasing returns is always risky and its best to avoid greed. Towards, this end, let’s review some of the lessons that one learns along one’s journey as an investor. Some of these learnings emanate out of personal experience, some out of the experience of others and some is wisdom provided by those who have been fairly successful investors themselves.

First up - the market is like a class room where we are taught lessons. The same lesson is taught to you time and again till you learn it properly. Once you have finished your learning, you move on to the next class room where you are taught another lesson. Successful investors are those who learn the most lessons along their investing life.

And the very first lesson in this classroom is regarding the virtues of long-term investing. Actually, the term ‘long-term investing’ is nothing but an euphemism for the combination of the powerful twin forces of compound interest and time. Compound interest in solitude means little. And time without the company of compound interest is equally meaningless. However, most retail investors lack the patience, conviction, heart and stomach required in combining these two forces for any meaningful length of time.

So here’s what one can and should do. Investing all your money in any one type or class of instrument is always risky, no matter what the instrument is. Instead, consciously spread your investments regardless of the external environment. Amidst all the noise, do not let go of the basics. Keep it simple, keep it real. While investing in gold is indeed desirable, have no more than around 15-20% invested in the metal. Don’t buy physical gold, instead use Exchange Traded Funds (ETFs). Allocate another 20% to relatively safe bank fixed deposits or short-term income funds. Cash can command around 15%. The balance can and should be invested in equity, not in a lump sum but in a staggered manner through Systematic Investment Plans (SIPs or STPs). This way, you can let compound interest do its work in the company of time. If the market falls, you get the same stuff cheaper. If the market rises, since you are anyway participating, you make profits. Either way, you win. It is really as simple as that.

Don’t borrow to invest. Ever. Do not listen to tips that your neighbour, train friend or office colleague is so gung ho about. Even if you listen, do not act upon the tip. Instead keep it in mind and be sure to check after a year or so what actually did happen to the hot stock that everyone was so excited about. That is, if it is still traded. Invest with mutual funds with an established track record of at least five years. Choose plain vanilla diversified funds. Then hold fast, hold tight and hold out.
Of great relevance in the current situation is a quote from Warren Buffet. He has said – “Five years from now, ten years from now, we'll look back on this period and we'll see that you could have made some extraordinary (stock market) buys. That doesn't mean it won't get more extraordinary a week or a month from now. I have no idea what the stock market is going to do next month or six months from now. I do know that the economy, over a period of time, will do very well, and people who own a piece of it will do well. Just don't borrow money to buy your piece.”
While Mr. Buffet’s statement was to do with the US market, it can literally be copy-pasted for our market too. Over the next five-ten years, in spite of its politics and politicians, India (as compared to the West) will do well. Do participate in this prosperity. And the best way to do this is by staying invested over the long-term. Do not try and time the market. Despite all the upheavals and turmoil that we go through, at the end of the day, we are progressing. And this progress will manifest itself in the stock market one way or another. The timing is irrelevant, that it will happen is certain. 
Or in other words, making your money make money is really so simple that it becomes difficult. However, if you try and actually apply the above principles, day in day out, month in month out and year in year out, the chances of losing are virtually nil. To benefit from these lessons is up to you. The question is --- are you up to it?

Seven Guideposts to Achieving the Impossible

It won’t take you long to recall the last time at work somebody resisted changing something. From the mundane and unimportant like changing the stationary, the look of the bulletin board, the type of coffee in the coffee machine or the traditional venue for the office holiday party to much more serious like changing the organization’s name, dropping a product line, merging to survive or closing regional offices.


How many times has someone said to you, “Oh, you can’t do that. In this organization that’s just impossible.” Workplace inertia is so common it is parodied everywhere, from popular TV shows to comic strips.



In part the impossible is held back by risk aversion and fear of change. Change is feared everywhere, but nowhere more than in the workplace. Corporations everywhere are littered with mediocrity, a mediocrity that is simply accepted “because doing that is just impossible.” So, organizations are run within ever-narrowing parameters with grudging acquiescence to never achieving what others see as impossible.

I believe ordinary, accomplished people in organizations, often those in middle management, can achieve the impossible. That belief is grounded in the experience of my Corporate Relations team at Diageo North America.
Instead of focusing on what’s possible, this team has spent the last 10 years striving for the impossible and making it a reality, proving it is not always the Nobel Laureates or Apollo 13 astronauts who have the power to impact real change. Ordinary, accomplished people in organizations, especially those in middle management, can achieve anything. They can and do achieve the impossible.

The first step is simple: eliminate personal beliefs and social pressures that new ideas, large-scale changes, and innovations cannot be achieved by ordinary people. Reframe what is possible. To do this, I believe all we need to give our teams is the motivation – and the support - to strive to achieve more than others think is reasonable or possible.

I’ve worked in the White House, had to get stuff done in Baghdad, Kabul, Sarajevo and Pyongyang, and in some of the biggest companies in the world where I’ve seen this idea in action. Now, as Executive Vice President of Corporate Relations for the North American operations of Diageo, I am privileged to lead an incredible group of individuals who initiated fundamental change in our industry that many deemed impossible from the start. Through use of simple motivational tactics that provide critical structure and support, this team has confounded an entire industry through their achievements.

By utilizing the “The Seven Guideposts to Achieving the Impossible” my team has been the driving force behind some of the largest scale, transformative changes the beverage alcohol industry has seen since Prohibition, remaking the social and regulatory landscape of their industry – something believed impossible just a decade ago.

Managers and their teams can apply these essential ideas by personally connecting to The Seven Guideposts to Achieving the Impossible:
1. Believe in yourself. Life-changing and market-leading achievements require individuals and team members to believe in their ability to accomplish the task. This creates a critical starting point, giving one a sense that there are no barriers too big to overcome.
2. Believe in the Mission. From the start, everyone on the Diageo Corporate Relations team understood what we were working toward, creating a common goal that supersedes all else. But we didn’t stop there. Everyone carried the fundamental belief that what he or she needed to accomplish was of enduring value, even when others refused to believe achieving it would be possible.
3. Be willing to change the rules of the game. Change is one of the most common and most feared concepts – in business and in life, especially in corporate America. Yet one of the keys to achieving the impossible is being willing to change the rules of the game. It takes the ability to look into the future and see that “the game” can be played differently. Diageo first changed the rules of the game when we stopped treating critics as “the enemy.” Instead, Diageo shifted to a practice of openness and “constructive engagement” that created real dialogue and progress.
4. Have the humility to ask for and use help. Athletes are trained to support their teammates with an RBI, an assist, a pass, whatever. This is a natural part of teamwork and working against a common opponent. In the business world, however, “the team” and “goal” are often not nearly so obvious. To make corporate teams truly effective, they need to develop a clear, shared vision and identify the issues that truly require shared focus and effort. But asking for help does not come naturally to all people. In addition, many corporate teams are not structured to engage in this way, and in actuality, are not really a team at all. The Diageo North American Corporate Relations team clearly held a shared purpose, and many of its projects required true collaboration, starting with asking for help from others who have the knowledge, skills or resources that you do not, taking that help freely to accomplish the task at hand.
5. Focus all available assets against a single objective. To make substantial change, the individual and the team have to assemble a broad range of resources and commit these resources to the shared goal. This is when the impact is most evident.
6. Have the tenacity to relentlessly, tirelessly persist. Making fundamental changes in any complex environment takes a great deal of persistence. One has to have a vision for the future and persevere toward that vision, working day after day, week after week, year after year, to accomplish the end goal.
7. Use your knowledge, skills, experience and training. People with training in a profession or skill have changed their definition of impossible because they have learned and practiced the component skills necessary to achieve seemingly impossible tasks. Even when a new situation appears impossible to the well-trained individual, his or her training “kicks in” and helps that person figure out how to create success out of certain failure.

Over the last decade, Diageo’s Corporate Relations team has consistently worked toward the goal of changing the social, legal and regulatory landscape for beverage alcohol. All along the way, each of us – individually and collectively – knew we were capable of this task, because we were personally connected to each one of these guideposts. It is through accepting and following these tactics any team can achieve the impossible.